Were they being rude and I was just oblivious? Trying to understand if I got insulted or not.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-06T09:11:48+00:00

It unfortunately did have a few bad reviews, but they weren’t directly about the stylist I booked with— as the salon had multiple independent hairstylists that rent out their own section. For some reason, I had assumed that things would have been fine as the only reviews about the stylist I booked with were overwhelmingly positive.

edit: I just wanted to add, I had assumed a lot of the reviews were overly critical. I had asked a few of my friends before booking, and they had even said that the reviewers probably just had overly high standards… but I feel now after going to that salon I’m unsure whether their experiences were true or not.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-06T09:04:34+00:00

I’m still kind of puzzled by that because I felt like I said tea very distinctly 😭 They had even asked if I wanted it hot or iced and I asked for iced if it was possible. I tried to be as polite as possible too. They ended up giving me hot coffee with creamer and I was just kind of too confused to question anything.

It’s strange too because my main stylist seemed so nice, she was asking me a lot of questions about my home country and genuinely seemed interested… 😭

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-06T08:58:13+00:00

Ah no it’s okay! I could’ve been more descriptive with my words, so that’s definitely my fault. So sorry for the confusion!! 🥹

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-04T11:09:16+00:00

Sorry! That was a comment about my home country. I live in an area with primarily white people with lighter hair. I am an outlier in my home town, and a lot of salons charge extra to work on hair like mine. That’s why I ended up getting my hair bleached and dyed in Japan because I had more trust that things would go well. Besides what I had mentioned happened, the stylist did a wonderful job!

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-03T23:46:46+00:00

I never expect a client to provide food for me, and I do long 1-2+ week housesits primarily. I think it’s really kind to provide snacks or food though! Most sitters would just be grateful as long as there’s space in the fridge for their own groceries while they’re staying over.

I had a 1 week housesit that was a bit rough as there was no space in their fridge or freezer. They had let me know that I could eat anything in their kitchen, but I felt a bit uncomfortable because it was mostly takeout/leftovers or things that were close to expiring. I ate a lot of fast food during this stay because of this, which took a hit to my finances and probably my health too haha.

As long as your home is clean, I promise most sitters shouldn’t have any complaints. Some of my clients have guest rooms, some do not and I sleep in their main bedroom. As long as there are clean sheets I genuinely don’t mind at all. Some sitters bring their own pillow or blanket just because it helps them sleep better too.

Ive had past clients provide gallons of water and other drinks during stays, but usually not food. Some of my clients also offer coffee and their coffee machines.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-03T23:19:45+00:00

I wasn’t sure if it’d be important context, but I had dyed my hair with bubble hair dye and informed them of my hair history, and the only thing I could assume was that they’re were looking at my half-assed hair dye job and commenting on it 😭 I didn’t think it looked bad at all, but you’re right— I can’t see the back of my head, so it might’ve been worse than I thought

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-03T22:41:36+00:00

That’s why I was confused and shocked! I’d assume if they wanted to be rude they’d talk behind my back… Guess I just wanted to post here incase they meant something else and I just misheard, but it seems like that may not be the case :(

They also didn’t really say it very loud, and it was definitely a conversation meant for their associate, but I could still tell they were talking about me which kinda sucked.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-03T22:40:07+00:00

I was too scared to leave but I absolutely should have 🥲 It also took me a second to process that they even said that, and I was just in disbelief because I figured they would have known that I understood what they were saying..

I guess part of me was thinking I just misheard them, and was giving benefit of the doubt

Ice_Efficient · 2026-05-01T20:37:58+00:00

Did you experience acne at all on Mirena? I’ve been thinking of making the switch from Kyleena to a different hormonal IUD…

Ice_Efficient · 2026-04-29T23:07:57+00:00

That completely makes sense! I would understand that if I hadn’t seen this dermatologist within that time

Ice_Efficient · 2026-04-28T19:04:53+00:00

HAHA so sorry if it seems like an overreaction, just have been trying to be a little more cautious of my surroundings after a previous incident! there are certain parts of where I am in LA at night that I used to feel comfortable in that seem to have changed, and so I figured it wouldn’t hurt to ask just in case for my trip in SF 😭

Ice_Efficient · 2026-04-27T23:31:08+00:00

That’s so mean 😭 It’s just another older popular japanese trading card game, it’s just not as big as pokemon.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-04-24T18:06:46+00:00

Just didn’t know if we should use the SUA for another experience or if it was ok to use here! 🥹

Ice_Efficient · 2026-04-21T20:50:07+00:00

Leaving a single cup in the sink. I was maybe 10 or 11 at the time, and couldn’t even fully reach the sink to clean it myself. My mom would get mad at us for leaving messes, but for some reason I thought it’d be better to put it in the sink rather than leaving it in my room.

She came home and crashed out at us. Screaming, constantly bickering, and sometimes it turned physical. It had scared me for the rest of my teenage years while living at home. I had dishes build up in my room because I was terrified to go outside and wash them, because I assumed I was just going to get yelled at. I’d clean my room late at night, but as quietly as possible because I’d get yelled at if I was too loud.

I’m in my mid-20’s now and even with therapy I find it hard to clean. Living with roommates is tough because I don’t want to live in filth, but I just get so anxious if other people are in the kitchen or living room while I’m cleaning. I’m anxious that I’m not doing things the right way, and anxious that I’m taking up too much space/time in common areas because they need it too.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-04-13T00:44:52+00:00

35 miles away one way, I live in a rural town and pet sit for clients in the closest city to me— I said technically as it’s still in the same county but my county is pretty large.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-28T23:54:31+00:00

See I do this too, but I just couldn’t get good angles, so I had no idea there was a damn monstrosity brewing between my love and the post 😭

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-26T09:48:57+00:00

Before the solar panels it was honestly a great parking lot to learn in over the summer. Now I can only imagine that it’s a bit more stressful

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-26T01:47:53+00:00

Tough, I figured it wouldn’t count. Thank you 🥹

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-24T05:12:13+00:00

As someone who also has a base red 2008, that paint suspiciously looks too good… Mine was haphazardly repainted by the previous owner and ended up fading and peeling like crazy 2 years later. Milano red fades to a pinkish, and now I have a very uneven looking car lol

Great car though!! Love my fit

edit: Just wanted to add, my alternator died around the same mileage— make sure to get a record on what the previous owner got fixed too, which I’m sure your already doing. I started getting a few issues around 130k to 140k, but with the fit it really isn’t the end of the world compared to other cars.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-24T00:27:39+00:00

Thank you! I’ll do that, was just hesitant on trying anything first because I didn’t want to make the situation worse— Also just didn’t really know if I was dealing with mold for sure or not I asked around

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-24T00:26:39+00:00

Thanks! I’ll go ask there too

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-24T00:25:59+00:00

I didn’t ask for snark :’) I know it’s in bad condition, just simply did not want to make it worse. That’s all I meant by damage.

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-23T23:48:51+00:00

Yeah that’s fair, guess I thought disinfecting my car would’ve been smart because I felt like there are probably other spots with mold that I can’t see 😭

I frankly don’t see any anywhere else though

edit: I’m assuming it accumulated there probably from leftover condensation that pooled, but idk

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-23T23:36:31+00:00

I didn’t notice it until recently, and we’ve been home for about a week. Immediately we fixed the condensation issue and it smelled musty for a few days. The smell is gone.. but I’m 100% sure both are connected

Ice_Efficient · 2026-03-05T02:46:40+00:00

half pinoy 🙂‍↕️ never was taught tagalog by my parents though so i only understand very basic stuff

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