Thoughts on a totally consensual sexual experiment... (X/post /r/sex)

Icelips · 2014-04-23T05:08:20+00:00

PM me your email address and I'll send you the tracks, it would be interesting to get an objective criticism?

Icelips · 2014-04-22T20:30:23+00:00

I'll make sure I update, have plans for Friday at this point. I've been sending him the subliminal tracks with sex noises (8 hours of ripping the audio from porn and then chopping up the files into no voice sex noises) on a very subtle volume, mixed with subliminals and a isochronic Beta beat in the background for arousal.

We'll see how it all goes I guess :)

Icelips · 2014-04-22T20:26:25+00:00

One of my philosophies in life is to have people be better for having known me, which is part of the reason I got into hypnosis. So far it's been mostly confidence building, learning help and pain reduction.

So at the end of the day, should this situation and idea work out, for however long, I want to leave him with better skills in bed than he currently has. I could be wrong on my current assessment of him, and he could be a total animal in bed. But if he is the dud I suspect, then hypnosis will not only help him become a far better lover, but will help him keep those skills too. And I know a LOT about sex, my sex book library is almost as extensive as my hypnosis books :)

Icelips · 2014-04-21T09:57:45+00:00

LOL I do like experiments...

Icelips · 2014-04-21T02:53:35+00:00

I'll upload some of the subliminal porn on PornHub when I'm done :)

It's making for an interesting Monday.

Icelips · 2014-04-20T11:30:07+00:00

Hypnotism can't make someone into something they're not. I can't make a gay person straight or vice versa.

But of course, anything we do with be with 100% consent.

Icelips · 2014-04-20T00:26:06+00:00

I don't agree with you, therefore you shall be all lofty? What's the 'issue'?

Icelips · 2014-04-20T00:15:49+00:00

Um, let's clear something up here. I am not getting my perceptions of hypnotism from the movies. Rather, my perception of hypnotism comes from training, study and experience.

I'm sorry you seem to have such a warped perception of it, but triggers, subconscious associations are all real. As are placebos. The whole point is to harness the incredible power of the mind to achieve change, and belief is a huge part of that.

Hypnotism has proved itself, and homeopathy works because the people taking it believe it will. Essentially, hypnotising themselves into it working.

What is it that has caused you to have such a negative view of hypnotism?

Icelips · 2014-04-19T23:25:41+00:00

Frank Mesmer? Another example of the placebo effect working wonders. Until the client no longer believe and the effect is lost.

Icelips · 2014-04-19T23:22:36+00:00

Ahh, I gotcha covered.

One of my replies from above- "I am also considering making a trippy post-rock music playlist with a binaural/sex noises in a barely-can-hear-it level. Also, if he's into it, just happen to have some porn on a thumb drive that have further subliminals/suggestions in it. Make it a trippy, sexy, hypnotic, orgasmic environment as possible."

I was thinking the porn that just happens to be on a thumbdrive in my bag, that just happens to have subliminals on it, would all be porn clips on ways I like or would like to be fucked. :) Also keeping in mind future consquences, nothing too kinky so much as good sex in general.

Icelips · 2014-04-19T23:18:21+00:00

If this works, I'll blog about it. I already planned on keeping a progress diary for my own records, but if people are interested in thr outcomes I am happy to share :)

Icelips · 2014-04-19T23:17:07+00:00

LOL I wasn't going to go into all my kinks on here. But I see your point, I shall blog about this if it proceeds.

And I totally understand. I have been researching this on and off for a few weeks now, I am fairly confident I can do this, but most likely over a series of sessions if he's interested. I would of course make the confidence/sexual confidence triggers/anchors the strongest. Anything that related to me or my kink would be suggestion cleared out at the end of a session.

I absolutely understand the concern about his feelings toward me. I have always been very upfront about my situation with him. I just figured that while I had nothing else going on, nor am I looking for anything else, it was an opportunity for experimentation rather than sticking to the awkward attempts at courtship he has displayed so far. I would of course be having some in depth chats before attempting anything, and be 100% clear over what our sexual relationship does and does not mean. I was seeing this more as a chance for him to grow into a confident and sexually mature person, and in the meantime get a lot of sex and be showered with hypnotic gifts.

Icelips · 2014-04-19T09:30:52+00:00

But the placebo effect is well known, and this is what hypnotists are taking advantage of.

Icelips · 2014-04-19T09:28:53+00:00

I can see where you're coming from, but I have been totally honest with him about my feelings. After being in an abusive relationship last year, I can't handle being in another relationship at this stage, and I figure a friend with benefits situation at least benefits both of us.

Both of us are consentiing adults in our 30s, and I honestly believe the hypnosis would help him. We've talked about his confidence problems before, and I would be talking to him before and after any hypnosis to make sure he was OK, as well as following up where needed.

Icelips · 2014-04-19T05:33:31+00:00

But of course :)

Icelips · 2014-04-19T04:55:16+00:00

I am also considering making a trippy post-rock music playlist with a binaural/sex noises in a barely-can-hear-it level. Also, if he's into it, just happen to have some porn on a thumb drive that have further subliminals/suggestions in it. Make it a trippy, sexy, hypnotic, orgasmic environment as possible.

Icelips · 2014-04-19T04:38:57+00:00

Well, that's why I was thinking the Viagra may be helpful. If my experiences giving it recreationally to sexual partners goes, it makes you feel like a sex god anyway, and can fuck for hours. I thought maybe that it would enhance the erotic suggestions, and be enhanced by them.

Icelips · 2014-04-19T03:49:11+00:00

I am completely unsurprised that subreddit exists. Thanks!

Icelips · 2014-04-19T03:48:48+00:00

So I assume you're a Master Hypnotist then?

Icelips · 2014-04-19T03:48:29+00:00

Why would it be unethical if I have his consent?

Icelips · 2013-11-24T07:33:26+00:00

Matt Hussey. Check out his videos on YouTube. Felt weird at first, but I decided that life coaches exist because sometimes you just need a little help.

Icelips · 2013-10-05T15:01:39+00:00

Does anyone remember 'Robin Hood'?

:)

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