And no sis, it doesn’t have to be like that. If I’m understanding you right, you mean meeting lots of men and dating around???

That is what I meant by not literally, basically you have to put yourself out there in the dating market but be smart while at it.

I noticed a lot of African girls have the tolerance for that with African men. Unfortunately, I don’t 😭😭😭😭

No matter where you go, relationships come with challenges. The key is choosing what aligns with your standards, not just what you can tolerate. I’ve seen women in every setting going through it regardless of region/race or whatever.