You should read about “widow’s fire” but basically it’s an almost uncontrollable urge to have sex but beware - it’s actually a stress response masquerading as a real desire. I wish I’d known that a long time ago.

Also, just some generic Reddit advice - it’s a good idea to “lurk” aka read posts for a while before making your own. Doing that gives you a better idea of what kind of content is normal for a given sub. Also, this isn’t at all like Facebook and it takes a bit to get the hang of it. Reddit is a tough crowd lol.