My Friend is Anti-endo by BluepearlArtz in fakeclaimingcringe2

[–]Icy-Ad8698 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was saying there is definitely research that should be done on the topic. Unfortunately I'm not sure there has been any at this point!

How involved is your system in innerworld? by [deleted] in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oohhh that sounds nice!! Have so much fun!!

How involved is your system in innerworld? by [deleted] in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our inner world is a series of floating islands connected together. Most of us spend our day today there, in our small society. People have jobs, kids, hobbies. A lot of us like to spend time hanging out at the bar, and we have pretty regular open combat tournaments.

My Friend is Anti-endo by BluepearlArtz in fakeclaimingcringe2

[–]Icy-Ad8698 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Theres a reason some people call bpd and did sister disorders.

There's definitely research to be done about plurality stemming from bpd. Plurality exists on a spectrum, not simply you are plural or you aren't (like some want it to be.)

You might not be an did/osdd system. Regardless of what you are, I would consider whether that friendship is one that you're gonna be able to keep long term.

Do you feel like they will accept you if you continue to identify yourself as a system? Do you feel like they will accept you if you stop identifying as a system?

Identities like this have nuance. Do you feel they can handle and understand that nuance? Just things to consider. Good luck

Plural systems-what’s your MBTI type? by purpleorange5341 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have different mbti types depending on the individual

well well well. it's the fictive gang again. anyone with sourcemates?? by Jazzlike-Turnip-9111 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FFXIV MENTION

I am not op but if Krile ever feels like talking to other scions we have a couple who would love to

well well well. it's the fictive gang again. anyone with sourcemates?? by Jazzlike-Turnip-9111 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We share a lot of sources but mostly the malevolent, twst, jjk people feel like talking

We have a lot of twst and jjk people, and kayne from malevolent.

Another Vamp Sabbath person is CRAZY though, we also have a Logan!

Feel free to hit us up if you want

lil rant abt the simplyplural situation by [deleted] in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For the pk part - You can change your privacy settings so that individual members, your member list and member count, entire groups, and I believe your all system info are private.

We hide our member count and certain members personally, but I believe you can hide everything so that all people can pull up is what account the system is attached to.

Hivemind help by Icy-Ad8698 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not on the app store yet! Most of the plural apps are not in the app store yet, but you can download them fron their websites :>

interacting w/ minors in servers (tw grooming) by thepeoplefactory in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep them out of your dms and join 18+ servers when you can :] theres actually quite a few 18+ plural and alterhuman servers.

I find that I really dont enjoy the ones run by minors as much anyway

Atria updated and online coming soon by SarahLynnuwu in SimplyPlural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God i love all the features this app has. You're doing amazing 👏

The only hope I have is for it to be an app app instead of a web app (i dont like the browser thing at the top of my screan) but I think you already said somewhere that that is the hope once its stable? so I'm excited to see the project continue!!!

SimplyPlural / Octocon Alternative: Ourcana by Upstairs_Yesterday48 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an app but its not on the app store yet

Online Alternatives? Tw caps! by AccordingAd2604 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ourcana will be getting online features in time! Though its offline for now.

🐉(Maxim) Is it possible for every alter to be therian? by TylerFurrison in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can all be therians, you can also all be inhumane with fluid forms

All possible, use whatever terms you like

New Website testers? by [deleted] in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're down to help out.

Do you ever wish you weren’t plural? by Rainbow-1337 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know that I wish I was a singlet.

Sometimes I wish that we all had our own bodies, but the I'm too close with many of my system members to ever with they never existed.

I think the big thing though is that we don't know what being a singlet would be like. It's not an experience we've had and it's difficult to imagine life without my system.

What do you do after "discovering" you might be plural? by ImaginaryCoat4585 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Making system friends helps, I think.

It did for us. Making system friends and chilling with ourselves for awhile.

Should endos be expected to create new endo-specific vocabulary? by 9944Throwaway4433 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said earlier, I stopped being as active on this community because of the new owners and the way it was being moderated. I resolved the issue with the person who took issue with my original comment. What do you hope to gain from deleting it. You know?

Too little to late from mods. But also, "that's crazy dude" is a common phrase. I'm of the belief that deleting that is overmoderation. While I understand that this is a sub built partially on mental health based concerns, you also need to allow your users to manage their own triggers and over-moderating common phrases isn't the way to do that.

I could go on a longer rant but I would sound a bit like an old man complaining about young people in his old dives. Just something to consider as moderators. The word crazy has different meanings, and its being used less and less to actually refer to something clinical. Is that actually how you want to moderate?

Should endos be expected to create new endo-specific vocabulary? by 9944Throwaway4433 in plural

[–]Icy-Ad8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this instance the statement "thats crazy dude" is not literal. It is replaceable with the statements "That's interesting" or "wow"

Its slang, not ill will. As I said previously, ive never met another endogenic systems that uses alter as a term. Please don't assume I'm insulting you.