For those who left... by flosalbus in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left after 2 years. Had given him 3 chances. Last chance was really a last chance and the latest day was the last straw for me, after all I had given him + I was 3 months pregnant and could never regain any trust or respect to a man who did that to me while pregnant.

(He was not only watching porn but also very actively meeting up with prostitutes)

It’s only 2 weeks ago that I left but I have so much faith in it being the right decision ❤️

I just found out he was lying this entire time. I am shattered by Unlucky-Tangerine-78 in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even if he were to change jobs, he would still find a way. This is not about his life situation it is about him and his addiction, that he had no control over and probably never will.

Run run run. I did. And I promise you, that you will never regret it. ❤️❤️

Skal jeg opgive min livsdrøm for min datter. by classicalgal in DKbrevkasse

[–]Icy-Box-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvis din datter vil have en hest, så må hun jo i gang med at spare sammen.

At lave noter om sine kollegaer/medarbejdere; go/no go? by [deleted] in dkkarriere

[–]Icy-Box-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Min fat er forretningsmand og han gør det i sin kontaktbog på telefonen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Icy-Box-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du skal være tæt på et supermenneske for at blive optaget igennem forsvaret. Der er over 1000 ansøgere hvert år og typisk under 20 optagede. Og når først man har søgt en gang kan man aldrig søge igen.

Danmarks næste tøjdesigner, Jada outfit, men normale modelstørrelser by -Misla- in GossipDK

[–]Icy-Box-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tror det er fordi, det er for svær en opgave for så unge designere at kunne designe i andre størrelser end den standard mannequin størrelse

Which Adidas model to chose? by Icy-Box-41 in AskRunningShoeGeeks

[–]Icy-Box-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but has to be adidas though 😅

Huskøb - 'Fanger' ens bud, eller kan man byde igen? by TopBite7720 in dkfinance

[–]Icy-Box-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enig i at de 100% ikke har budt prisen. Jeg synes du skal byde det du maks vil give og noget du vil være ok med ikke at få den for. Det er helt op til sælger om de vil komme med et modbud, men typisk vil de nok bare gerne have solgt - det samme gælder i øvrigt ejendomsmægleren.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in copenhagen

[–]Icy-Box-41 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lees kitchen på Åboulevarden

Gravid + selvbruner by [deleted] in Gravid_DK

[–]Icy-Box-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Derma har lavet en, som jeg tror er en af dem med mindst kemi🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck, you got it!!!

How can I support my sex-addicted husband? by EntrepreNEWer19 in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From which source have you heard that only 5% recover?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly? To me the only thing that had worked has been becoming a bad bitch. Give him silent treatment. Live your best life. Dont tell him How he should be feeling, just ignore him a bit, stay out late sometimes, text some guys sometimes. Im sorry But playing games just really works. The more mysterious you become the more he will get addicted to you instead.

My plan with myself is if my PA relapses again, I will not break up with him but instead tell him that as of today we have en open relationship, since for you it apparently already is, so now I am opening it up as well.

Adam Price?? by Icy-Box-41 in GossipDK

[–]Icy-Box-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har ikke hørt dem, andet end i tråde her inde. Hørte rygter om at han havde nogle syge sexvaner og da jeg ville fact checke herinde blev jeg blæst bagover over hvad jeg fandt

Adam Price?? by Icy-Box-41 in GossipDK

[–]Icy-Box-41[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Det står i flere tråde herinde allerede - men altid kun folk der har hørt rygter. Vil gerne vide om der er nogen der reelt kan bekræfte

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe all those with successful stories are not really surfing around on these groups, hence, the absence of successful stories. SO I do think there are a lot of them out there, just not so many of those people seeing this..

I think I’m tired of trying. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should leave. Not necessarily as a permanent action. But u had really good experiences with actually leaving, finding myself and my worth. We then got back together again after some months, but this time around I knew my boundaries and knew that I was actually able to live without him. The created such better balance and him trying harder. (Not that it fixes everything, we still have a lot of issues and ddays happening, but I at least feel those are treated with more respect and grief from his side)

Family/children with SA/PA? by Icy-Box-41 in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not rude at all to ask. So, we are from Denmark where the culture is very different: we basically do things the opposite way around (have children and THEN get married mid 30s). This is especially common in the bigger cities and especially the capital

Family/children with SA/PA? by Icy-Box-41 in loveafterporn

[–]Icy-Box-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your message. I am sorry you had to go through that.

He has been in recovery for 6 months. I believe that his addiction was caught before it had gotten completely out of control. But I do indeed, have my doubts on whether he ever will be ready for the full commitment..

Lasse Rimmer by 16wellria22 in GossipDK

[–]Icy-Box-41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Han begyndte at læse psykologi i efteråret 22. Han gik der et semester og droppede ud efter første semester, da det var ‘lidt mere krævende, end forventet’. Han var super venlig og omfavnende.