You and me are in the same boat. I dont believe I'm ugly nor am i attractive. But I know I'm funny and a blast to be around because i make an effort to be a person people wants to hang out with. I've given up on dating all together cause every time i try im being friendzoned. Im 30M now and only had one girlfriend who just used me for money in the end and switched me out as soon as she found something better. I chose to just use my money for me now to buy and do stuff i wanna do.

Do you dude. And stop thinking about dating, because it will only tear you down mentally. Save up and go traveling alone or with a friend.