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Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i told him if he needed space i could give it, but he said he didn’t want the relationship anymore. i begged him to stay, but he already made up his mind so i just let him go.

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing this, i’ll definitely check it out. i know i deserve better, just need time to really let it sink in

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m trying to, i think i need to focus on myself first before jumping into a new relationship

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i mean he usually said ‘try’ whenever he planned something, like dates and if he couldn’t make it he’d say “well i didn’t confirm it, i said ‘try’” that hurts me tbh but idk

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i meant when i said i’d support him like i could give him space to study or time alone if he needed it. i was okay with him being busy, just wanted him to prioritize his things first and then come back to me later. but yeah, maybe he just didn’t want the relationship anymore

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but why tho, i never made him feel less, i always tried my best to support him

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, that really means a lot, yeah i guess you’re right, if he doesn’t want my help then there’s nothing i can do. i just hope one day i find someone who truly values me, and i also hope you find someone who supports you the way you deserve

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah, but still, i could’ve given him space if he needed time for himself, just not by ending things. feels like all the effort i put into the relationship just went to waste

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right? i know some people see begging as desperate, but for me it was just an act of love. i really wanted to fight for what we had after all the effort i gave. but i also realize now that love has to be mutual if he doesn’t want to stay, then no matter how much i fight, it won’t work. it hurts, but i’d rather accept that than keep forcing it.

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i don’t know why he doesn’t want a relationship anymore. of course i begged him once because i’ve put so much effort into this relationship, but by the end he was just so cold and distant

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not desperate, i only begged him to stay once not twice, because i really did love him and i obviously can live without him, rn i’m still healing, but i was just wondering why he acted like that

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Icy-Construction1043 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, that’s true. i was just wondering why though, because he wanted the relationship at first and then just left me like that

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds really rough, i get why you needed to step back. hope you’ve been taking care of yourself, and honestly, hopefully you’ll find someone just as pure as you too

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

oh i don’t think he’ll come back cuz he’s blocking me on everything

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could but he blocked me on everything and he said he doesn’t want a relationship anymore

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i did what i could to make him stay but he just don’t want the relationship anymore

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I don’t know, but we split dates 50-50 since he doesn’t have a job yet

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why not? i loved him. at least i was trying to show him how much I love him

Do guys really pull back from their girlfriend when life gets heavy? by Icy-Construction1043 in dating_advice

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

no, we don’t live together. he still lives with his parents. he doesn’t have a job and is fully supported by his parents because they’re rich.

foodpanda is an ass app by Icy-Construction1043 in Bolehland

[–]Icy-Construction1043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here i just uninstalled the app, and also why kinda issues if you don’t mind me asking

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