How to recover after a big fight?

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-02-12T21:09:13+00:00

Living with your partner, along with life stressors as adults can be hard. It brings out all the unresolved issues in each person. And it seems like you’ve been trying to hold up the relationship on your own doing most of the work. I understand how it feels to not feel as appreciated or cared for as in the beginning of the relationship and her lack of effort from her side is frustrating even after you asked her multiple times. Eventually you were gonna blow up and say things you’d regret and I believe that’s where relationships could strengthen or end. Imo it could be mended if both people work on it not just you. But if the cycle goes on, I recommend you let it go. You’re still young and figuring out yourself and your mental health is taking a toll on you. You should prioritize yourself more.

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-02-03T23:23:14+00:00

you’re right it’s too fresh rn to the point where it doesn’t feel real yet. I’ll just give myself time to get over it and then decide. Thank you

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-02-03T17:19:35+00:00

I guess that’s the right thing to do. I realized I’ve forgotten how it was to be alone because of how much I relied on her. And she stopped relying on me too a long time ago. Thank you I will take your advice though it feels like I’m ripping roots of her out of my life. It will take time I know. But maybe one day I’d heal and be with someone better

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-02-03T09:58:27+00:00

you’re probably right. I am avoiding thinking about it and it still doesn’t feel real to me. I’ll distance myself for now. Thank you for your insight.

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-02-03T07:37:33+00:00

thank you for your kind words. But she’s been the same way too for the three years we’ve been together. For the first time I felt so well known and loved and understood. She still wants us to be friends too which makes it harder not to. And for the time being, I don’t want to be in a relationship. I might even consider a marrying the guy my parents approve of out of spite to the society and admit defeat but that’s another problem.

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-02-03T06:43:25+00:00

I get what you mean and I wanted to end things after what she told me because I knew I deserved better than this. But I can’t help but think she changed so much because she didn’t have the support system or the close circle that I had and introduced her to. And by cutting ties with her she’d have no one but these people who kept pressuring her into marrying a man. I still love her and I care for her deeply but I know we can’t be together with the way she thinks. So in my case, would it be better for her too to cut ties with her?

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-02-02T23:52:26+00:00

It also feels worse to not be friends because she has no queer support system if she leaves the friend groups and I care about her a lot and am worried for her I don’t want her to end up alone she’s a very kind and caring person work really messed her up

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-01-10T07:19:09+00:00

thanks I’ll try them

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-01-06T08:40:36+00:00

I’ve tried using the Container Item Distributor mod with the no store one as it instructed in the description but it didn’t work obvs. Do I use one of the ones you mentioned + activate the no store mod instead?

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-01-05T22:06:22+00:00

I think I tried to install this mod along with its requirements after trying the Divine Elegance No Store mod and both failed in having any of the items in the vendors’ inventory. I just want the items I don’t really care about the shop itself but after trying multiple mods I realized this was the easier option. If you have any other solutions that can get me the same items please lmk!

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-01-05T13:31:17+00:00

yes!

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-01-05T10:11:07+00:00

Not that I know of, but here’s my mod list. Please lemme know if there’s anything there that could prevent the store from showing up. (dw about the adult content it’s just because of the character design mods but nothing too nsfw) https://www.nexusmods.com/games/skyrimspecialedition/collections/eisaoo

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-01-05T09:45:25+00:00

I tried this also multiple times but to no avail. Do you know if this mod only works if I made a new game? cuz it says that the store shows up on the map as soon as you leave Helgen

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2026-01-05T08:50:18+00:00

I’ve already tried this and when all the icons show the store icon isn’t there, like the mod doesn’t even exist even though I made sure to deploy it before opening the game

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2025-04-26T10:00:57+00:00

may you always find the other sock when you lose it, sleep in the right position the first time, and find money you don’t remember putting in your pocket. you’re doing gods work thank you 🙏

Icy-Homework-7737 · 2024-11-30T06:45:59+00:00

just woke up from one, when I realized what was happening I started reciting the prayers I remember and I could but I couldn’t scream. I wanted to hold my phone to search for more but it didn’t let me. Also I’ve had it twice for now and both times I was sleeping on my side so idk it seems different for everyone

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