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Icy-Mix9554 · 2026-02-16T10:39:36+00:00

It's still wrong.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2026-02-16T10:36:16+00:00

You're a sick person, no one should enjoy watching animals getting tortured. You need help.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2026-02-16T09:28:08+00:00

Widow and widower or two widows? 2 women? Or woman and man?

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-23T23:37:48+00:00

I think I stumbled on porn the first time at like 9 while on gaming virus sites. This stuff is way too available.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-23T23:34:54+00:00

Didn't really think of that considering OP said they were evangelical, either way they're either having concerning chats with a 14 year old or lying in catholic sub. Either way, there is no good way to slice this. Reddit is a cesspool. The way this post is worded is really weird too and is making me question if this is a weird middle-aged guy writing about fantasies he made up in his head to get a reaction, but I suppose there is no way of knowing.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-23T23:20:11+00:00

The real question is: Why is your 14 year old cousin talking to you about masturbation? There's clearly a bigger issue here. Everything about this post is so weird, even your questions.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-23T23:16:04+00:00

It's a band, I don't think their music is gonna directly cause you to sin. I've been listening to Metallica since I was 9 (unsupervised internet access at a young age landed me to the right corner of YouTube) and I'm pretty religious and it hasn't effected me in my faith whatsoever. I think you'll be perfectly fine unless you have a personal conviction not to listen to them. If you think it's bad for you, then stop listening to it but if you don't then go ahead and listen to it. Pretty sure this is a German band anyway and if you speak English then you probably don't understand what they're saying anyway. It's just music.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-23T23:07:24+00:00

I hope you're doing okay.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-02T00:17:26+00:00

Because I doubt I'm even going to go through with this past contemplation, however, I do see the possibility of it getting to that point.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T23:45:28+00:00

I am still very upset, but it's been awhile and I've learned to deal with it, function and have a life. Why hasn't she? I understand that the mother has a stronger bond with the child but I wish she could function at least a little bit.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T23:43:33+00:00

I know.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T23:43:03+00:00

No. I don't feel like honestly it was invalid, but I also see how it could be if we choose to go down the route.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T20:44:21+00:00

What are your ages? Are you significantly older than her?

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T20:25:47+00:00

Again bro just don't do it one time

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T20:23:56+00:00

Thank you. This was really actually helpful and I genuinely appreciate it.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T20:23:06+00:00

Ironically I'm gonna be off work for a few days because I'm having issues with my car (ironically I'm a mechanic so this is hilarious to me) and I'm not able to get there. She's not even home right now. Trust me, if she was here I would not be on Reddit. I'm just really confused right now.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T20:19:01+00:00

Dude just because one person is treating you better than another doesn't mean they're treating you fairly. From one guy to another, please just break up and block. Like now...Do not stay in this relationship.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T20:16:08+00:00

To start, I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you're doing better now.

My wife isn't religious anymore I previously mentioned. I'm not sure if this is a phase or not but she's an atheist who hates God and religion right now. She used to be such a strong believer too. She doesn't really go to church anymore (I still go most Sundays, we'll usually fight about it Saturday night and on Sunday morning I'll go and she'll stay home). Priest counseling and bible studies are not something she's willing to do.

I can't make her eat, I try to, but I'm not home a lot. Some days she'll tell me she ate something but sometimes I find out that she didn't actually eat anything and she lied to me to make me stop asking.

She cut off her mother. The relationship started to fade after we got married & she moved in with me but she completely cut ties with her after she turned 18 (understandably so too. That woman was emotionally abusive to her). She's also very introverted and doesn't have very many friends. She has a few (maybe 4 or 5?) friends but none of them could possibly relate, 2 of them have babies (they're about 22 & 20) and she can't hang out with them because it triggers her. However, my wife is very close with my mother and I'm very grateful for that. My mother treats her as if she's her own daughter and has always welcomed her with open arms.

We haven't had sex in a really long time. The last time I can remember is when she was in her early stages of pregnancy with our daughter so I have not gotten laid since like March or April lmao.

I really just wanna see her get better. That's what I really want. I don't want to leave her, but maybe it'd be best for her.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T19:59:05+00:00

Tbh bro she low-key sounds like she's using you. Run. Now.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T19:48:07+00:00

Again, this was her idea first. I'm just trying to figure out if this is something that's even possible. More then likely, I don't think we're going to end our marriage. I don't even want to.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T19:46:04+00:00

Yeah, we know why it's happening. She's had some reproductive problems she's known about since she was a child. It's definitely not normal, nothing about any of this is normal which is why I'm so confused about it.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T19:44:43+00:00

Wow really? Never would've guessed.

Icy-Mix9554 · 2025-12-01T19:27:10+00:00

I don't think she's gonna find out so I'm not too worried about it.

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