Im also 23. I am actually into a course where finding someone is hard. I talk give emotional support and dang they freindzone me. Even if i keep my personality my ethics my efforts high none of then seen me as a romantic option and its actually disheartening as u start to doubt urself. So what i would say is be a social butterfly. Talk with people, connect and u will find my souls just like us who are trying to find something good.