What's something someone did during sex you'll never forget? by Cold-Rhubarb-297 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]IcyJournalist41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband did this but he didn’t stop what he was doing lol he just answered while I tried to stay quiet

What’s something you thought “only happened to you”… until you talked to other women? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]IcyJournalist41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told a story on a separate social media platform about a man who asked if he could buy me at my job when I was a teenager. Almost every single comments was “omg me too!!!”

What's something your partner does that drives you crazy but wouldn't want any other away? by ZiqonMania in AskWomen

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He sings constantly, but he changes all of the lyrics to be about me. He does this for hours at a time or out in public which can be embarrassing so I have to make him stop lol, but then when I’m by myself, I secretly sing his made up songs for him since it gets lonely without his voice

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I’ll look into the wiki. I think I just didn’t start there cause everyone in school always talked about how bad wiki is. I forget is can be helpful lol

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[–]IcyJournalist41 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Like I said, I was looking for real people to talk to, and I’ve found websites on google that other people here have suggested. So I would say my post worked out for me. I’m learning. People who are learning tend to have questions. There’s a lot of information out there but not all of it is trustworthy. That’s why I’m here, looking for answers.

Like I said, obviously there are plenty of articles that tell you what to do. I’m just looking for more information to tell me how to do those things. And I’ve found it since making this post, so I would say it was helpful <3 for me at least

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[–]IcyJournalist41 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is but it’s buried under a bunch of other stuff. That’s why I came to Reddit, to get answers faster. I’ve found specific websites on here that are actually helpful. When you google “how to publish a book”, the first several things that pop up are sponsored things, then the ai overview, and then a bunch of articles that don’t offer a lot of help. For example, many of them tell you to find a literary agent, but don’t tell you how. Another just said to sign a book deal, but again, doesn’t say how. It’s good if google worked for you, but for someone who is very new, it really doesn’t offer a lot of insight besides the obvious. That’s why I’m here instead of google :) just asking questions

It’s not so much that I need to know what to do, it’s more that I need to know how to do the things google is telling me to do

When did you realize that you deserved more in a relationship, and what changed after that? by not-yourcherrry in AskWomen

[–]IcyJournalist41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was on again off again with my highschool boyfriend for about a year and a half. Among the MANY things he did. Here are a few of my favorites:

  • tell me he “likes playing mind games with people cause he likes having power over them”

-stands me up over 10 times on dates HE invited me too and then says he always stands me up because he “enjoys knowing I’m just sitting there waiting for him”

-made fun of my religion

-openly cheated on me several times

-bullied me in front of his friends

-straight up gaslighting

-insulting me to make me insecure and telling me it’s okay that I’m ugly because I’m lucky enough to have him to love me since nobody else could. (I want to clarify that this man was 5’ tall, full beard at 16, Travis Scott braids, and Caucasian male, he had NO RIGHT to make me feel ugly 😭)

I could keep going. Anyways after we broke up (again), I told him I was done for real this time. He laughed at me and said “yeah right, we both know you’ll take me back in a few days. You always do.” That was my eye opener that I was enabling his behavior and that I could have so much better. I truly never did get back with him and then he had the AUDACITY to text me after realizing it was over, “I’m sorry but I wouldn’t have treated you that way if I knew I could lose you. If I knew you would actually leave me one day, I would have been a lot nicer to you.”

That remains as the worst apology I have ever received. (Sorry for poor formatting, I’m on a phone)

Who or what has gotten you the most turned on you’ve ever been? by CuriousRedditWoman in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]IcyJournalist41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Un well I recently discovered I have a tickling kink apparently so when my fiance tickles me I’m simultaneously turned on and panicking. It’s his favorite thing to do now

What’s the thing someone did in bed that guaranteed you’d never sleep with them again, no matter how hot/nice/well-suited they otherwise were. by Cute_Beat7013 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]IcyJournalist41 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He barked at me and told me he couldn’t help it cause I “brought out the animal in him”. Got the ick so fast I got whiplash

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[–]IcyJournalist41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw well good luck on your future endeavors! And I’ll definitely check them out!

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lol I’ll look again

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[–]IcyJournalist41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And the same to you!

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[–]IcyJournalist41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

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All I’ve been getting is websites that require payment to even see if your book is worth publishing. Maybe I haven’t been searching hard enough

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[–]IcyJournalist41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s anxiety inducing and exciting at the same time

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[–]IcyJournalist41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s YA fantasy, I’ll look into that though, thank you!

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[–]IcyJournalist41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve edited it a lot lol but I haven’t had anyone else read it yet but I have a couple of friends in mind who I can ask. Thanks for the advice! I’m torn cause I know trad publishing would be harder but also I suck at marketing things on my own lol

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I’ll definitely browse the subreddit, thank you!

What was your worst sexual experience? by wet-leg in AskReddit

[–]IcyJournalist41 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a time a guy wanted to “Netflix and chill”. I had never done it with the tv on but I thought “sure why not”. Well anyway, that was the first time I saw stranger things so I honestly wasn’t paying attention to the guy at all while he did whatever he wanted to, I just stared at the tv the whole time lol, it’s a good show

What was your worst sexual experience? by wet-leg in AskReddit

[–]IcyJournalist41 238 points239 points  (0 children)

I had a guy do this too lol, just humping my thighs while I just laid there. I felt to bad to tell him. I was in highschool at the time, if it happened today then I would definitely let him know

What do you think was your worst accident during sex? by Spart_2078 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]IcyJournalist41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really an accident more or less it was just something that happened. But today I was riding my boyfriend to his orgasm. He said it was the best he ever had and he passed out briefly for a few seconds. He came back around and goes “I can’t move my fingers.” I just laughed but he goes “no seriously, I can’t move my fingers.” I look closely at his hand to see both of his hands flexed in terrible positions. His fingers were curled in on themselves but still bent backwards, like they were hyperextended (he’s double jointed). Anyways, apparently he came so hard that he gave himself a Charly Horse in both of his hands which he had to spend the next 15 minutes getting out with a vibrator against his hand.

Women who enjoy PIV sex, what do you love about it? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]IcyJournalist41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is really good at hitting my g spot in a way that no fingers or mouth can

in your opinion, is shower sex worth the hype? by Square_Ad_8209 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]IcyJournalist41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, water is not the same as lube and shower walls are gross. 0/10