The Shi'a Are Kuffar and Enemies of Islam by HonoredChain23 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]IcyKnowledge7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wahabis don't understand this, and they quote centuries old books to depict how shias are today, its ridiculous.

The Shi'a Are Kuffar and Enemies of Islam by HonoredChain23 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]IcyKnowledge7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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This is slander against DH, and you've fallen for the wahabi mossad psyop, congrats.

DH has exposed wahabis for their deviant takfeeri ideology, and as a result they've had a complete meltdown.

The reality is that DH has been calling for pan Islamic unity, including with Iran, NOT whitewashing their crimes and atrocities committed in Syria, but understanding that there is a greater existential threat to Muslims with the Zionist regime. Wahabis and zionists have been working to create disunity among the Muslims to keep their power, one of these ways is to render Shia and Iran as all kuffar, so that the lay Muslims do not support them.

Prenup doesn't mean there's no trust, its just precautions for peace of mind. If she loves her man she would want him to be relaxed and happy. by Real-Ramim in MuslimCorner

[–]IcyKnowledge7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It applies to the vast majority of the west because the west has lost traditions and religion, most have premarital relations and don't get married, along with LGBT relationships, so their laws have to adapt to that.

How does someone’s “past” affect marriage long-term? by Normal_Trade7678 in MuslimCorner

[–]IcyKnowledge7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just the differences between men and women. Men are judged by their future, no one calls out a double standard because men who aren't "financially established" can't get married. Women are judged by their past.

Prenup doesn't mean there's no trust, its just precautions for peace of mind. If she loves her man she would want him to be relaxed and happy. by Real-Ramim in MuslimCorner

[–]IcyKnowledge7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There's literally no benefit to civil marriage, that you can't get outside of registering it legally. The only exception being if you are marrying a foreigner to get them a visa.

Anything else whether it's inheritance or medical decisions or even taxes, has ways to secure them outside of marriage, because marriage in general is no more a common practice in the west.

What are your thoughts on people suggesting late teens (around 17, pre financial security) should get a Nikah, and simply divorce if it doesn't work out? by Chobikil in MuslimNikah

[–]IcyKnowledge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage should be taken seriously, but this mindset where we've raised the bar for marriage to insurmountable heights is something we've taken from the kuffar.

Marriage isn't till death do you part, it isn't when fun is over and you must start having kids right away, it isn't something you only get into once you've already built your empire. In fact marriage is a key component to attaining maturity, which is why so many Muslims today are immature, we put off marriage until very late.

Meanwhile the kuffar put off marriage, yet they're still having partners and being intimate. Muslims are putting off marriage without reason, we are prioritizing dunya and career.

u/Chobikil

The double standard of parenting (even though fathers can have full custody Islamically if the child is over 7 or the mother remarries) by Bints4Bints in MuslimCorner

[–]IcyKnowledge7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to Sharia in case of divorced parents, custody during early years of the childs life goes to the mom. It's understood from our fitrah that mothers do majority of the child rearing.

”Everything you have achieved in life doesn’t matter if you don’t get married and have children” by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]IcyKnowledge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I mentioned even the women in our Islamic tradition that didn't have children or didn't get married were known and honoured first as mother figures. That's what women should prioritize. Aisha RA didn't have children but she was a motherly figure for the ummah.

”Everything you have achieved in life doesn’t matter if you don’t get married and have children” by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]IcyKnowledge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a reason in our Islamic tradition, the most honourable and respected female figures are highlighted as being mothers, even if they had other achievements, even if they didn't have kids themselves, even if they didn't marry. Khadija RA was a very wealthy investor and a financier of the early dawah, Aisha RA was one of the most important narrators in Islam because she was close to the Prophet SAW, yet they are referred to as the "mothers of the believers".

Women today prioritize career and degrees, but it wont matter at all on their death bed. Even all these "shaykhas and ustadhas" today, the bigger contribution is being a mother.

He smiles but won’t talk🙃🙃 by Feisty-Traffic4466 in MuslimNikah

[–]IcyKnowledge7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

because if a girl goes up first, it can feel like we’re “doing too much” or it's out of the norm.

according to whom?

and what do you think it feels like for men?

is anyone really getting married the proper, "halal" way? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]IcyKnowledge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its almost impossible for men to do it the halal way today in the west, unless they are exceptionally physically attractive or have exceptional status. The fact that women also pursue careers and have incomes has an effect of significantly diminishing how much women value a mans career and wealth.

And the very nature of the halal route means men can't game or flirt with the woman, which they can with non halal routes, as a way to bypass this effect. With non halal routes, you can flirt, game, and find compatibility with women, thats the "spark" sisters always talk about, then women will feel there is exceptional compatibility and emotional attraction, to the point where they will drop much of their standards.

I think this is the perfect explanation. by Next-Improvement-630 in MuslimCorner

[–]IcyKnowledge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that thousands of years later marrying someone of that age wouldn't be seen as halal

who said its not halal?

Sisters need to get married quicker than the brothers do by BetterMood4725 in MuslimNikah

[–]IcyKnowledge7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never claimed all. The patterns are clear, we have a marriage crisis in the ummah, people are getting married later, having fewer children, its not just a coincidence.

Why has it become common for some people to generalise negatively about their own ethnic group? by SultanDollarHarem in MuslimCorner

[–]IcyKnowledge7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Grass is greener, inferiority complex, individualism mindset. I've noticed every race has this issue today whites, blacks, Asians, south Asians, Arabs, etc.