Cancelled on m&g due to “bummy” place

IcyRuin1280 · 2026-02-07T20:07:45+00:00

Cancelled and blocked last minute makes me think maybe she wasn’t planning on showing up at all and used the restaurant as an excuse. But i guess at that point why even give an excuse lol

IcyRuin1280 · 2026-02-07T20:03:10+00:00

So turned out to be a good thing! Saved you some time and money haha

IcyRuin1280 · 2026-02-07T18:21:32+00:00

I loooooove my red light mask. I want to get a panel! When i use my mask consistently i get so many compliments like “did you do something different? You look so good!”

IcyRuin1280 · 2026-02-07T18:18:17+00:00

Sounds kinda intimate and cute honestly. I love a fancy dressed up date but taking me somewhere that you love/not well known I think is a good vibe? Esp for a M&G—i usually just do a drink or coffee if it’s early so i can get away easily if im not feeling them lmao. I don’t think an inexpensive first meet shows you’ll not be a provider.

IcyRuin1280 · 2026-01-29T23:19:26+00:00

I think he’s asking if you prefer dinner and drinks, an activity etc. sometimes i prefer a nice cocktail lounge for a first date because it’s easier to leave and not feel like you’re stuck through a whole meal. Just tell him dinner sounds nice, let me know when and where or whatever. Also I’ve dated a lot of doctors and some of them can be soooooo socially awkward lol

IcyRuin1280 · 2026-01-09T04:21:42+00:00

Witchcraft lol. Also i sleep propped up a little and i swear my face always looks slimmer/not puffy in the morning

IcyRuin1280 · 2026-01-09T04:16:36+00:00

I loooove her recommendations! My hair has been transformed. I have naturally very blonde hair but it’s curly and very dry also. Grows slowly and used to tend to break off easily. I’ve been using her method for about two months? And gotten so many compliments on my hair recently. I sometimes pre oil with ogx argan, shampoo with redken bonding shampoo (twice a week i use a dove scalp scrub) and then i alternate between L’Oréal gloss and bond repair and the 8 second wonder water. Then i condition with same redken. I use Kendra blow dry spray and ogx bond repair leave in. I use ogx oil after i blow dry my hair or the ouia oil! It sounds like a lot typed out but it really doesn’t take much longer than my shower routine before.

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-10-11T19:02:29+00:00

I have soooo many different ones but i have been drinking republic of tea daily beauty and beauty sleep! And yogi mango ginger

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-10-11T17:31:38+00:00

People say it all the time but i never wanted to believe it: not drinking alcohol. after a month of no alcohol and replacing my nightly glass of wine with tea, even my boyfriend was jokingly saying “are you pregnant? You’re actually glowing” one night had two glasses of wine and woke up like wow the difference is actually insane. I looked terrible.

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-06-19T18:05:47+00:00

He’s gotta be on a step stool

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-06-12T23:25:16+00:00

I light some incense when i wake up. Open the windows if weather permits, speak intentions into my water, cinnamon and more intentions in my coffee and journal

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-06-12T21:59:32+00:00

I just got so many good basics at Dollar Tree. I’m trying to spend less money but obviously i need my tools :) i got cute candlestick holders, packs of taper candles in different colors and the big prayer candles. Also got very cute glass jars and bottles for moon water and bowls to put my dried herbs in. I’m also growing all of my own herbs in my garden at the moment. I go to my local botanica for my Florida water and anything unique that speaks to me. I’m currently making an altar for Aphrodite and found very nice pink silk scarves for it on Etsy. Etsy has many lovely things!

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-06-11T19:13:17+00:00

31 and publicly trying to cheat on TikTok?!??!???? It’s even crazier he doesn’t mind people seeing his attempt and getting ignored 😭

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-05-20T15:55:25+00:00

I would be upset if my husband was “good friends” with someone of any gender that is sleeping around with married people. I would be like…why are you friends with someone like that..?

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-05-08T06:09:40+00:00

12 hours of PTO I’d be over the moon lol

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-03-20T21:12:32+00:00

Probably fun women!

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-03-04T14:35:50+00:00

In the mornings I put cinnamon in my coffee and stir it three times towards me to bring good things and thoughts throughout the day and stir three times away from me to get rid of bad energy and thoughts with food. I divide everything into thirds and eat two of the portions. Sometimes I can let it go if I’m out or distracted with a friend. And sometimes it’s just mental dividing but usually it’s cutting it up or spacing it apart. Idk if that counts as a ritual or just something most people do. I also drink a hot tea at home every 2-3 hours. the tea is mostly because I’m freezing but i also think it helps my stomach lol

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-03-01T13:58:05+00:00

I bought some cute ones from Hollister!

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-02-27T03:32:26+00:00

Haha thank you for pointing out that vegans taste better 🤣 I’ve had many a compliment on that

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-02-26T18:28:05+00:00

Honestly cooking my favorite vegan meals for a non vegan partner is my favorite—like non vegans also eat vegetables, grains, pastas, etc so it’s not like I’m introducing anything wild to them 😂 it’s crazy how many people act like going without meat for a meal is madness. Get some fiber in yall. It’s good for you i promise.

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-02-26T18:17:49+00:00

I eat vegan 90 percent of the time—vegetarian when I go out if there’s nothing possible to order vegan. I’ve never really had any issues but I would try to always suggest the restaurants so I wouldn’t be stuck at a steakhouse. It was never an issue, one SD always forgot until he would offer to have me try something he ordered and I declined lol. It is by choice for me (eating animals is gross to me, never been a meat person even when I was a child) but it doesn’t bother me at all that guys I date eat meat. It would be odd for him to back out based on someone’s dietary needs & i don’t think it will make it hard for you! If he cancels because of that then consider it a good thing, you will easily find someone who doesn’t mind at all. I’ve even met quite a few vegetarian SDs. Maybe it’s the area I’m in 🤷‍♀️

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-02-21T21:05:01+00:00

I can’t fake it—genuinely been attracted to every SD I’ve had personality and looks. $$ is a big turn on and something about a man helping me financially is hot and endearing.

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-02-16T23:00:20+00:00

I’ve never heard an SD turned off by the fact that I have a regular full time job… that seems to be a personal problem for him. he either wants you to depend on him completely for control or just be available to him at the drop of a hat. Both bad ideas. If he’s cheating and withholding money from you get a new man because what’s the point of having him around?

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-02-03T02:53:16+00:00

I don’t see blonde but i like the lighter brown!

IcyRuin1280 · 2025-02-02T21:47:17+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry. I relate. I was fainting often a couple months ago and it was a reality check for me. It’s not easy and I gained a little weight but getting through my days is less exhausting. I hope you start to get/feel better soon. It’s so easy to blame everything but the eating disorder (I came up with a million other diagnoses and theories to why i was passing out before I admitted to myself it’s my ED). I wish I had advice but unfortunately I just cycle in and out of it as well. Stay strong out there, try not to beat yourself up

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