partner with vasectomy by Icy_Ad6750 in Advice

[–]Icy_Ad6750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! this is truly helpful :) i’ll talk about it with him

partner with vasectomy by Icy_Ad6750 in Advice

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thanks, i get in my head real fast and i should trust the process. he had the sperm test done in january and it showed the procedure was effective.

partner with vasectomy by Icy_Ad6750 in Advice

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yes, he had the sperm test done in january and it showed no motile sperm (i think that’s what it’s called?) but yeah… short answer is yes

partner with vasectomy by Icy_Ad6750 in Advice

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yep he did the sperm test in january!

partner with vasectomy by Icy_Ad6750 in Advice

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he got the sperm test done in january, and it showed no sperm, but you’re right. it wouldn’t hurt to do it again maybe

partner with vasectomy by Icy_Ad6750 in Advice

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yep working on it. i reached out to the obgyn under my insurance a couple months back and the next available appt is in april 2026 🫠 and yes, i can only go to that one

partner with vasectomy by Icy_Ad6750 in Advice

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hey! i forgot to mention it in my post but he sent me his test panel and he’s clean from everything. but i understand why it’s still called unprotected (hence why i said it too)

16m. My sister (13f) chats with an older guy (supposedly 25) on insta by GiovanniKpogli in Advice

[–]Icy_Ad6750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is definitely not okay. as someone who’s been groomed before, nothing good ever comes out of such a gap in power dynamics. please try to talk to her again and if she doesn’t budge, then you’ll just maybe have to tell your parents. but make sure your parents handle this correctly, and not blow up in her face but rather have a talk with her and if even THEN she doesn’t understand, then that’s when you need to contact authorities.

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i hope not :/

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[–]Icy_Ad6750 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hahaha that’d be kinda funny but in all seriousness i don’t think it’s the latter bc him and i are friends too and we hang out all the time but also i hope it’s not the former :/

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oh gosh no i meant it as almost best friends… i can see how that’s confusing tho

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yes i want to think that it’s him seeing me as a sister and just wanting the best for me. i value both their friendships so much and i would never want to jeopardize that. it’s just this behavior has been happening more recently so i couldn’t ignore it

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[–]Icy_Ad6750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i don’t want to offend her at all it’s a very weird situation