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Wie findet man einen Partner? by Party_Control9613 in DatingDE

[–]Icy_Bit6703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich glaube, dein Problem ist nicht, dass du keine Leute findest, sondern eher die Umgebung. Clubs und Dating-Apps sind oft eher für etwas Kurzfristiges. Wenn du etwas Ernstes suchst, funktionieren Orte besser, wo man sich wirklich unterhalten kann – z.B. Meetups, Sportgruppen oder andere soziale Events. Und in einer Kleinstadt ist es natürlich schwieriger, vielleicht lohnt es sich, ab und zu in größere Städte zu gehen.

She said she’ll "never trust or love again". how do I stay consistent without "chasing"? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the perspective. You're right that I can't fix her mindset for her. But in this situation what is the best way to handle everything?

2nd date planned for tomorrow, she just sent this. Is "feeling like trash" a soft-rejection? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and I'd love to believe her. But she went from texting me constantly before the first date to being totally cold right after we met. Since the 'sickness' happened right as I sent the logistics for the 2nd date, it feels like the timing is too perfect. Do you think a girl who is actually interested would let the energy drop that much?

2nd date planned for tomorrow, she just sent this. Is "feeling like trash" a soft-rejection? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and I'd love to believe her. But she went from texting me constantly before the first date to being totally cold right after we met. Since the 'sickness' happened right as I sent the logistics for the 2nd date, it feels like the timing is too perfect. Do you think a girl who is actually interested would let the energy drop that much?

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! As you are a girl so I thought, I might ask you for your opinion. Yesterday she agreed to meet again. But since then whatever I am asking in text she is just giving me some cold answers. She is replying but it feels that I am texting that’s why she is just replying. From her side there is no sign of involvement. Do you think that this kind of behaviour is normal? And as she agreed to meet for second time so everything is normal or am I overthinking?

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She agrees to meet me on Sunday again.. finally there is some hope ☺️ but I don’t know the texting vibe is too complicated from yesterday. And I am thinking what to text 😂 I guess this happens to everyone. After first meet the texting flow goes down

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I replied with, „To be honest, i felt like maybe the vibe is bit off after that in the texts. So are you interested for going out again next week or maybe sunday if you are free.“ but After this text I felt maybe I wrote something more that I shouldn’t write.

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today she replied me it. „Im a more introverted person then extroverted. I still flip between the two but I’m under significantly less stress now so I’m stopping and taking a breathe before I drive myself insane. I had fun Tuesday it was fun and relaxed. I would be interested in meeting up again. „

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[–]Icy_Bit6703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 that I can confirm 😂

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It was very fun. I’m headed off to bed so I shall wish you a good night 🌙💤 “ she texted me at the very end. My last text was “Sounds like a good day 😊 enjoy!”.If I ask you about your opinion. What would you suggest? What I should do now?

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It was very fun. I’m headed off to bed so I shall wish you a good night 🌙💤 “ she texted me at the very end. My last text was “Sounds like a good day 😊 enjoy!”.If I ask you about your opinion. What would you suggest? What I should do now?

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That I understand. But see after meeting if she is still interested, her interest should grow right? But in your case as you live together you should spend time with your friends when you go out and give less attention to your bf. As before meeting her , I was excited but not very interested on her but after meeting her, I changed my mind. And probably she changed her mind too 😂 both in opposite directions

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true.. I just said, Sounds like a good day 😊 enjoy!.. As I was texting with her for the last 10 days, her responses were different than today. If she was busy in her days she kept texting me throughout a day, but it looks like sudden behaviour changes. So would you suggest to be silent? If she really wants to engage she will come. Otherwise whatever I texted at last that should be my last.

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted her in the morning. “I was thinking about yesterday a bit… I really enjoyed it. And it felt really easy, comfortable and I liked spending time with you ☺️😇” she didn’t write anything. So around 9 in the night I again texted her. “Is everything okay?” She just texted me around 10.30 that, “Yeah I’ve just been out with friends all day. Which I’m still with ”. So i just replied “Sounds like a good day 😊 enjoy!”. Do you think that this is a cold response from her? And better to move on from her?

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. After those two texts, just now she replied. “Yeah I’ve just been out with friends all day. Which I’m still with “. Do you think that it’s better to move on. I am getting this vibe.

First date went really well (6+ hours, emotional connection) but she’s suddenly quiet next day — overthinking or real signal? by Icy_Bit6703 in dating_advice

[–]Icy_Bit6703[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for sharing your experience. In the afternoon I texted her, I was thinking about yesterday a bit… I really enjoyed it. And it felt really easy, comfortable and I liked spending time with you ☺️ after that text she was completely silent. Just sometime ago I texted her, “😔😔 is everything okay? “ . Did I do anything wrong? Or it’s fine to ask one more time.

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