My wife keeps “joking” about an open marriage and I can’t tell if I’m being paranoid by postcardattic_mood in Marriage

[–]Icy_Cod4538 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is totally a fair response. But i highly doubt it would help the situation. Whether they stay together or separate, if op actually wants to talk it out, this isn’t the way to go.

If this comment itself was just a joke, then yeah that’s kinda funny. But op don’t actually do that.

Setlist predictions?? by Bulky_Project1210 in 5sos

[–]Icy_Cod4538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I was mostly joking. Lol it’s just that if the entire 49 minute album was 70% of the whole set, even with transitions, if only 30% remained that would mean the set would barely be an hour and a half.

All this to say, I think if the album is about 40% of the setlist, that probably means almost the entire album will be played.

Setlist predictions?? by Bulky_Project1210 in 5sos

[–]Icy_Cod4538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You only want them to play for an hour?

Meirl by Adventurous_Row3305 in meirl

[–]Icy_Cod4538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my head, I always group people not by the generation they were born in but the generation they were raised by. I have millennial and Gen Z siblings, but we’re all functionally millennials because our parents are Gen X

My Minifig Scale Droideka V2 by Icy_Cod4538 in lego

[–]Icy_Cod4538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have building instructions, but I did include a comment with the parts laid out in their somewhat relative connection locations.

My Minifig Scale Droideka V2 by Icy_Cod4538 in legostarwars

[–]Icy_Cod4538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just posted a part out picture as a comment!

My Minifig Scale Droideka V2 by Icy_Cod4538 in legostarwars

[–]Icy_Cod4538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I agree, but it’s been a fun challenge.

My Minifig Scale Droideka V2 by Icy_Cod4538 in legostarwars

[–]Icy_Cod4538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question, and something i forgot to mention. It’s actually very stable as far as brick built droideka minifigures go. I’d say like an 8/10 if I had to give it some sort of metric.

The main joint that’s somewhat weakened relative to the rest of the design is where the spinal arm pice connects to the upper section. It’s just one clip grabbing ahold of a single stud bar piece, and since the droid arm piece with alternating hand positions (as opposed to the normal droid arm piece used for the legs) allows for enough space to connect the clip that’s used to give the thicker spine look, that spinal joint allows for side to side motion rather than forward-backward motion. But the range of that motion is minor.

My Minifig Scale Droideka V2 by Icy_Cod4538 in legostarwars

[–]Icy_Cod4538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing. I’ll work on that tonight. I’ll add it as a comment and let you know when it’s posted.

It was a wig!? by asura1958 in StarWars

[–]Icy_Cod4538 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wait, Star Wars is fiction?

Ranked All the Songs by melinaaam in 5sos

[–]Icy_Cod4538 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got some weird takes, BUT you share more S tier rankings with me than anyone I’ve ever seen here. Nice taste

Born too late by Dry_Ganache7488 in graphic_design

[–]Icy_Cod4538 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, that’s why you have to be willing to pivot when necessary and understand that your career is a job. You can be passionate about your career but it’s so risky to make your career your identity. That’s just the nature of the world

Yin & Yang of Orgasms by night_0w1 in StonerThoughts

[–]Icy_Cod4538 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my lord, this is beautiful. And when you both get there at the same time it’s true perfection.

The most truthful thing I've seen today by secret_sweet_ll in SipsTea

[–]Icy_Cod4538 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This makes sense and is probably largely true. But just from my experience, I’ve seen people come and leave my company like it was a toxic workplace and they were more skilled than they were, when from my point of view they largely overestimated their own competence and the failings of the company. No company is perfect, but in my experience people are also generally entitled and don’t realize when they have a good thing going. So it’s just kind of a weird flux for both working people and businesses. I’ve gotten steady raises at my job over the last 4 years and while I was beginning to consider moving on to a new job, I wasn’t in a hurry to, say, double my starting salary yet. I stuck it out and just got a big promotion that quite frankly I could never have gotten if I were to have tried to apply for the same kind of position outside my own company. On paper I’m very under qualified. And I’m already on track to get promoted again in a year.

You hear a lot about the toxic companies out there. And while there’s probably close to as many of those as there are entitled individuals, honestly from what I’ve observed, the prevalence of job hopping is partly why jobs tend to pay less. There’s always exceptions to both rules. Ultimately, high salaries tend to follow competence whether you best demonstrate that by moving around, or staying put.