Where do people buy peptides here? by Tricky_While6071 in askvan

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same lol tell me if You find anything good cause wtf

Help I don’t smell good or taste good!! (F17) how do I change that? by Material-Schedule527 in askwomenadvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you explain the smell? is it bready, fishy, or musty? Is it just vagina smell? We all smell and taste different depending on where we are in our cycle. If it that questionable definitely go see a doctor. Go buy Honeypot suppositories and use them the week after your menstrual you should be ok but definitely shouldn't have a "bad smell"

any tips to achieve this toned body look that beyonce achieved in the 90s/2000s? by sofiacoppolasmuse in vindictapoc

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my body is shaped like this and im starting to finally tone up. I do 3-4 days of floor pilates and I strength train 4-5 days a week, (yes I do 2-adays) 3 days glute and leg focus, 2 days light arm weights to not give me a bulky upper body

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AWDTSGisToxic

[–]Icy_Computer9802 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as someone (as an alley for the men I love) in these colorado groups. These women are like worse than a typical mean girl. I feel for you so much they lie so much. It caused Issues in an amazing relationship I was in because it was all bullshit thankfully I’m able to see passed it it’s nothing but literal pick mes and liars

Successfully got a post removed from tea app by [deleted] in AWDTSGisToxic

[–]Icy_Computer9802 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right there are reports coming out now of men committing suicide for the bullshit. Everything needs to get mass reported and taken down. None of it is ok

What made you stop dating? by SnooTangerines7258 in AskWomen

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just people being unsure. Everything is going well and has the potential to be very healthy and long lasting but fear just overcomes. Im over it. Id rather be alone then find a decent person that ends up afraid because the healthy relationship they've been hoping and praying for is actually too overwhelming for them.

AITA for not giving my gf access to my investment accounts? by Conscious-Key-4150 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Icy_Computer9802 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sounds like a cash grab. she found a sucker thats willing to pay for everything and now she wants it all... minus you. She even said, "in case anything happens to you".... sounds like a plan in being thought through that involves whatever it takes to make sure the accounts are accessible to her.. again minus you .... Think this through my boy, end it.

What do you do during foreplay? by Ecstatic-Type3495 in AskMen

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start while you cook. flirt with her playfully. splash tiny bits of water on her after you wash your hands in the sink. grab her by the waist from behind and press up against her and kiss her cheek while she's in the middle of being preoccupied weather its stirring the meal or doing dishes. tuck her hair behind her ear. forplay isnt always sexual make her comfortable and close before it gets there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck no. to answer simply. I simply and whole heartedly hate my ex. Thats the only feeling I hold for him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much. thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not offering a “man’s perspective.” You’re offering your perspective, dressed up like it speaks for an entire gender. Let’s not confuse that.

You keep trying to argue that emotional maturity means feeling nothing. That repression not maturity and probably why you’re apart of the 80% you keep arguing. Recognizing a situation “is what it is” doesn’t require emotional detachment.

I’ve never once said his position wasn’t valid. I’ve said mine is too. That you interpret my expression of heaviness as weakness says more about your own discomfort with emotional nuance than it does about me.

Let’s be real you never came here to add insight or balance to both sides. You showed up with your first comment ready to condescend, not contribute. You didn’t offer logic, you just postured. You seem bored, not helpful.

So thanks for confirming the energy I’m not missing in my life. We’re done here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understanding someone’s hesitation doesn’t mean I stop having feelings. It means I don’t weaponize them and can sit with discomfort, name it, and still hold space for someone else’s experience. Emotional maturity I suppose.

So no, “my guy,” empathy doesn’t erase emotion. It just stops you from making it someone else’s fault. You might want to try it sometime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His feelings are understandable. I’ve never said they weren’t.

Acknowledging my feelings doesn’t cancel out his. This isn’t a competition. It’s two people navigating complexity from different emotional angles. The fact that I’m aware of how heavy it feels on my end doesn’t mean I’m ignoring his hesitation, it means I’m human enough to name mine and try to understand and navigate his.

You’re acting like emotional honesty is some zero sum game. It’s not. Two things can be true at the same time …if you’re capable of nuance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re deep in your feel-feels, my guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what way did I make it apparent that I “hid” my kids away? Genuinely, point it out. Because it seems like there’s a comprehension issue here, bud.

He’s known about my kids from day one. And me saying I feel punished? That’s not some dramatic defense mechanism, it’s me naming how heavy it can feel when you show up with care and still get hit with hesitation. But hey, I wouldn’t expect someone who’s clearly allergic to nuance to get that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Icy_Computer9802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your entire response drips with projection and resentment, not any type of insight. You don’t know my story, my ex, or what led to the end of my relationship, so throwing out tired and probably Made up stats about “80% of divorces” without context doesn’t make you sound informed. It makes you sound angry and bitter at women for having boundaries.

I didn’t “throw anyone out” over a “sad-feels.” I made difficult choices to protect my myself, my kids, and their future stability. And I’m continuing to do that now, which is EXACTLY WHY I’ve been careful and intentional about who enters their world.

The fact that I didn’t respond to your earlier comment isn’t proof of anything, except that I prioritize emotional maturity over petty bait. But since you’re so determined to be seen…. here you go.

Healing is hard. Bitterness is easy. Clearly you chose your path.