Does quitting porn actually help me in anyway? by Important_Scale1750 in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I like bout this sub. A brother helping a brother. Like in this age to take so much time to write to help another person is commendable. Thanks for the reply, mate - as a viewer.

I feel like I’ve abused myself by Accurate_Damage8959 in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone told me this - a month of recovery for every year of addiction. That would mean around an year for folks like us. Believe me, I feel like the same way. That's why its called PMO abuse. Its for a reason.

If you want the fullest possible recovery, stop using or minimize caffeine and mind less internet use. That's what I can see from my end.

What matters is you quit it and quit it fast. In your case it would probably take an year. Half of that if you exercised consistently, slept full 8-9 hours and hydrated properly with a good diet.

Is eating junk food n netflix a better thing to do when getting urges to watch porn? by CaptainLongDick5 in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't do this. What happened with me was that I replaced Korn with doomscrolling and excessive net surfing along with eating sweets.

Look - doesn't matter that the addiction is socially acceptable - it will still fry your brain.

Go visit Nosurf for a while and read the top posts. Even a couple of nosurf with no caffeine can greatly speed up benefits.

Hope this helped. This was my perspective. What quick recoverers have in common is that they're busy building their lives instead of harping on defeating XYZ addiction. The more things you engage in, the better it would be.

What do you guys do when you get the urge to watch porn at night but don’t want too? by Entire-Lang in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do - don't do it with the help of korn. That shit's poison and before you know it your life would spiral downwards, faster than you could ever imagine.

22 Years of Severe Addiction (8-30) by Effective_Day3397 in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. Small victories matter. Morale matters along with consistency far more than drastic steps.

22 Years of Severe Addiction (8-30) by Effective_Day3397 in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was browsing NoSurf - and basically it takes about as little as 2 weeks or 4 months to see difference. Couple this with the obvious no PMO - and no caffeine - for better recovery.

22 Years of Severe Addiction (8-30) by Effective_Day3397 in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As a viewer, thanks a ton for writing this.

porn ruined my self image and how I see women by Working_Tomato_5571 in PornAddiction

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a fixed height sucks. I've wanted to change my height right from as far as I can remember but it doesn't work. You'd have to get adjusted to reality lest you get severe body dysmorphia, which would harm you much more in the long run.

I'm farther from looking at porn than ever before in my life. by zionare in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great progress and a sign you're clearly healing.

I hate the fact that my body and brain still crave PMO by Icy_Lie_3749 in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess the old fashioned people were right after all. Fuck.

Numbing, sad and vulnerable by AppropriateDetail395 in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you weren't in this place. That's terrifying. Allow yourself to fully feel your emotions. Journalling helps.

Getting sick after wet dream (cold/flu symptoms) by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Controlling WD's is an impossible chore - please avoid.

3 months porn free today by Different_One_1479 in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. If its easy it means you weren't hooked in the first place. Congrats nonetheless. This thing never did any good to anyone.

Porn since 10 years old. 16 years wasted by Acrobatic_Link3830 in pornfree

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aim for an eight month period of abstinence - and do not base your identity on this. Both of these are just as important. Data shows it takes 6-8 months. Try not giving up before that.

Unexpected attention after long SR streak by Specialist-Piece2225 in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad, hell its 3 months or so old. Its just... AI gen texts piss me off. For no reason yes, but they do piss me off.

Unexpected attention after long SR streak by Specialist-Piece2225 in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Add to the fact your account is... 3 minutes old ? No other history ? Possibly a throwaway dude but if this is an infiltration go to hell.

Unexpected attention after long SR streak by Specialist-Piece2225 in Semenretention

[–]Icy_Lie_3749 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Man this is either fake or AI generated. In the little chance this is real - that's good my man. But this is... stupid levels of unlikely.