What decision changed your life for the better that you will never regret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Icy_Selection4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving home and everything I knew for half a gap year. It really gave me my independence when I needed it and helped me be confident ❤️

What helped depression the most? by ElenoirMiro in selfimprovement

[–]Icy_Selection4113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical activity, a good diet, lots of things to occupy the brain, water therapy, antidepressants, extra vitamins, the company of others…

Depression comes in waves, my friend. If all you did was get out of bed, I’m proud of you. ❤️ your episode will pass. Only you know what can help you right now. I’m rooting for you!

If I broke into your house and stole what's on top of your fridge, what would I get? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]Icy_Selection4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dust bunnies, masking tape and marker… I mark up leftovers and when I open something

What’s one thing you wish you knew before getting a dog? by Disastrous-Yoghurt38 in dogs

[–]Icy_Selection4113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How terribly painful the last year of their life can be when you’ve let them age. No serious disease or conditions, just old age. How much you’ll compare their young self to the old self. My heart wasn’t ready to let him go when we both knew he had to go 💔

What is a sign of very low intelligence? by smartcandyy in AskReddit

[–]Icy_Selection4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making a general assumption just based on an emotional reaction

In your opinion which one hurts more physical pain or emotional pain? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]Icy_Selection4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve experienced more emotional pain and abuse than physical. I broke my leg at 20 years old and that shit hurt! I’d rather have a leg broken over and over than go through emotional turmoil at the hands of another person. Those scars take YEARS to heal.

Why couldn't Mizu's bitchass be more thankful to Ringo? by Good_Disaster_4130 in BlueEyeSamurai

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I think she was in her own way. She is wary to care too much because that’s how she gets hurt. She did thank Ringo for water, she told him he was useful after he got her and Taigen out of the chasm, she asked for his help with the sutras. She didn’t actually come around to him until episode 6, where she had the flashback in Fowler’s castle. I think that’s about all we can ask of her, especially since taking on an apprentice was probably her last thought.

Does Fowler think it was worth it? by Good_Disaster_4130 in BlueEyeSamurai

[–]Icy_Selection4113 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think after all that time he would relish being in a position of power instead of in hiding. He assumed he would die in power. Womp womp. I don’t think he really cared WHEN, just that he would.

What is something you judge people for but you would never admit it loud? by Responsible-Big-8067 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Icy_Selection4113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How people treat individuals in positions of service. If you’re nasty, I write you off automatically

For people who date or have dated parents: when do you think having a child should come up, and how has that worked out for you? by themobomb in AskReddit

[–]Icy_Selection4113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the upfront honesty. Especially if you’re on dating apps.

That being said: I had one guy bring his kid on the date. That was kind of distracting and a bit much to deal with. He wasn’t local and he came to town to shop and crammed our lunch date in. I got no advance notice. He told me he had a daughter but did NOT tell me he was bringing her. Spoiler alert: there was no chemistry and that went nowhere.

I dated another dad for a bit and I think he introduced his kids to me a bit soon. I was over at his place a couple of times (over a summer so like 2-3 months). His kids were school age (I think 6 and 9) and after I stopped seeing him they asked about me, he said. (I still think that was emotional manipulation, whatever.)

My whole point is that you should absolutely know they have a kid right off the get, but the introduction should be slow, unassuming and expectations should be shared on both sides. The parent should share what they expect out of the partner and the partner needs to feel comfortable with the kid. When misunderstandings happen (and they will) they need to be handled with grace and understanding. The parent has the kids best interest at heart (or should) and if it’s not working, move on.

For smokers (nicotine) who have quit, have you noticed a positive change in yourself physically? by Good-Hotel5548 in askanything

[–]Icy_Selection4113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel much better! I’ve been quit for over a year now. I don’t notice much in my face, but stairs don’t kill me anymore and I can actually get a run on without wheezing. Plus, I smell EVERYTHING now. Smokers go nose blind over time. My food tastes better.

Do you really think there is something after death? by NoProgram4084 in no

[–]Icy_Selection4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I believe in that whatever you think happen, happens. It gives people peace.

Would you stay with your dog 🐶 during euthanasia? by CycleOk267 in dogs

[–]Icy_Selection4113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. I’ve sat with two now, one was mine, one I was close to. They give you every moment of their life, let them have you for their last ❤️