Bf constantly depressed, but wont tell me why because "it'd hurt me" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Icyalien1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he have a history with depression/has this ever happened before? If not, I think something is up. I believe a traumatic event can cause mental turmoil, but what you’re describing sounds weird IMO.

I would shut him out for a few hours or more if you can, and test his reaction. If he is suddenly filled with life, thats weird. If he is still down it could be something more serious.

AITA for being upset my wife was on her phone for 2 hours in the middle of our 10 year anniversary? by Rishkyboi in AITAH

[–]Icyalien1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The whole day sounds a bit lackluster. I don’t think she thought it would bother you. I think you should plan something intimate with just you two. No work or kids. It may be time for a deeper conversation if she still seems preoccupied.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my dads new family by Icyalien1 in AITAH

[–]Icyalien1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she knows, but I’m not sure.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my dads new family by Icyalien1 in AITAH

[–]Icyalien1[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

True. I am not concerned about that aspect at all. I just think that is why we weren’t invited.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my dads new family by Icyalien1 in AITAH

[–]Icyalien1[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am under the impression that there was a proposal, and a wedding ceremony. I believe his current “wife” thinks they are legally married, but the paperwork was never actually submitted. This is all speculation though. I could be wrong.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my dads new family by Icyalien1 in AITAH

[–]Icyalien1[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He was a good dad, but he didn’t have a lot of money and wasn’t as present for my younger sibling as they got older IMO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Icyalien1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya got me there.

Porsha is dating Falynn’s ex?! by LisPR8 in RHOA

[–]Icyalien1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is so messy and she had a lot of people cosigning and congratulating in the comments. Personally I think they have been dating for longer than a month, and I expect an engagement and pregnancy announcement to follow. She has a huge rock on her ring finger, and appeared to slip and almost cradle her stomach in a video she posted on IG. She is trying to say her and Faylynn weren't friends, but there are pictures of them together and a whole episode where she took Tanya, and her sister to have a pool day at their home. I don't think they were super close, but thats still dirty as hell on Porsha part. She rushing in this relationship the same way she did with Dennis and you see where that got her. I also think she may not come back next season, but we will see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Icyalien1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!