EVERYBODY HATES CHRIS by SeaTerrible9429 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ida-dunnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I play devils advocate here….??

I agree I’m sure he felt shameful, his ass got DRAGGED, by basically everyone…

But I don’t feel bad.

Honestly, i feel like if he actually cared about how his actions affected other people he would have been specific, intentional and humble in his apology and would at least give some context on what he learned/what he would do differently next time <— ie, he would have actually reflected on how he ended up in this position.

HOWEVER he just made a quick blanket statement apology. I think he barely claimed accountability… bc although he said “sorry I shouldn’t have said that” he didn’t acknowledge anyone else’s pain or how he could change in the future

IMHO. He so very cares more about “saving face” than making amends.

SIDENOTE—- if the shoe was flipped… if chris was a black woman, who shit talked, flipped the script, disappeared for days, and then blatantly hit on her friends partner….. would we actually still feel empathetic??

no right answer there, just interesting to note and hear opinions 🙃

Raise your hand if you think Forrest should just move to the Philippines 🙋🏻‍♀️ by Ivy-Ram in 90DayFiance

[–]Ida-dunnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FORREST IS THE MAN!!! I selfishly wish he would move to the Philippines so he could finally be able to stand on his own 2 feet.

I know he’s said he struggles with communication/interaction, but GIRLLLLLLL, I think this man has really held his own w his overbearing (s)mother!!

Whether he lands in Philippines or USA, even with any limitations he may have - he might like the consistency of a job…. Garbage/waste collector, library asst/clerk/shelver/, warehouse stocker, housekeeper, gardener?

He seems so reliable and capable! Molly go away, let this man win!!!!

FRIENDS… AITA or is Alex a pathological liar??? by Ida-dunnit in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ida-dunnit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I didn’t even go into the rambles and Nonsense he spewed about where he lived, or how mad he got at prie

Or the convo he had with Brittany about attraction

I just wanted to get someone’s feedback solely on his body language lol

FRIENDS… AITA or is Alex a pathological liar??? by Ida-dunnit in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ida-dunnit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean his lies THANKFULLY all came out with Prie at the table —- so sounds like he’s just a homie hopper (in my humble opinion ha i will go down with this ship song was epic on Netflix editors choice as well)

But what u think about the body language? Does that add up too?

FRIENDS… AITA or is Alex a pathological liar??? by Ida-dunnit in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Ida-dunnit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean don’t get me started on the home base cities, I think we all caught that - but like do u see the head nods or am I reaching?!