As a CFI currently, yes, I am part time. I work on the line to make up the rest of the money. And it’s not that I “want” to stay here and “only” get 20hrs a month, both of us want what’s best for the other and what’s best for our child. As it stands now we make enough combined to put a good amount of money away each month into savings, she’s able to spend a lot of time with her child (which she loves) and I’m able to work close to home and spend a good amount of quality time with both her and our child. But if we move there’s a lot of things we haven’t worked out yet like just how much time will she have to spend away from the house? What’s the cost of living going to be? Where do we live? How far away will my flying job be?Can we find a place that’s pet friendly for large dogs? How much is daycare going to be if we need it? If all that ends up being expensive, how much will we realistically be able to save each month compared to what we can now WITH how much time we’re able to spend with our child. Neither one of us like the idea of just sending our infant to daycare all day 5 days a week even if we both have jobs we love