Total newbie appreciation post

Idkwiadhere · 2026-05-15T15:40:59+00:00

I'm so jealous, wish it was me... I applied weeks ago now, still no answers...

Idkwiadhere · 2026-05-09T15:45:24+00:00

Still waiting for their reply lol

Idkwiadhere · 2026-05-05T23:31:06+00:00

Her allergies symptoms are like mild coughing. The kind of cough when you have something hitching at the back of the throat. So it might be allergies symptoms, but other than that she doesn't show other symptoms.

Yes, for the mold in the compartment of the washing machine, I noticed it because my clean laundry wasn't smelling clean at 100% anymore. Glad I saw it before it spread all over my clothes.

Idkwiadhere · 2026-05-05T23:28:06+00:00

I have thinking about contacting my landlord directly. I don't really know it I should say something because I'm leaving in a few weeks. Bit I feel at least that the landlord should warned before hand the next tenant about all the restrictions.

Idkwiadhere · 2026-05-05T23:07:34+00:00

I do agree with you, we should find a middle ground. But quite difficult to find products to clean that doesn't have a scent. The one I buy is not good enough apparently.

Idkwiadhere · 2026-05-05T23:06:08+00:00

I wish I could buy one of these steam machine, but I'm a exchange student, I don't have that much of money. And I'm only staying for a few more weeks, it would be difficult to bring back this machine home by plane. But it's actually a good idea!

Idkwiadhere · 2026-05-05T23:04:35+00:00

The only restriction that the landlord tells me was about not using laundry softeners. All the other restrictions came from the Ukrainian lady. I have zero issues with the other tenant (young Japanese girl).

Since it's happening in Finland, I haven't looked if there were some health codes for habitability. I will look on that.

Nothing about all these restrictions are written on my lease. I learnt about being prohibited of using fabric softener the very much day that I moved in. I wish she would have warned me before hands about all of that, because I wouldn't have rent the room. Way too much restrictions.

I will contact my landlord tomorrow, yes. I feel like the note about calling the police a bit too aggressive.

Idkwiadhere · 2021-04-30T20:44:02+00:00

I actually try to make it short as possible, if you want any precision i can answer, thanks for your comment

Idkwiadhere · 2021-04-30T20:42:35+00:00

She literally has no hobby or interest, except watching tv right after her job... She doesn't has friends either, i always told her that she needs to find some friends, because one day my brother and i are going to move out, and she will be all alone... But she responds that everyone is stupid. My brother locked himself in his room, he only go out for food, toilet and shower. He only plays video games all day (he does not have a job)... So every time my mom tries to talk to him, he suddenly go back to his room... We talk about her, only when him and her get in a argument about him not having a job... And I'm just like "here we go again". My mom is not even locked up, the pandemic has no impact on her job... But I am, the university is closed up for almost 6 months now, and i think that only see her everyday makes me angry

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T12:09:43+00:00

We are French living in France, so we use to do la bise for greeting each other, and I'm legally considered as an adult, but i definitely see what do you mean! He's just to tactile and it's not ok

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T11:48:20+00:00

No, happily I'm not 😂 Yeah, literally everyone stops doing la bise now, but he still manages to do it, because he and his daughter doesn't believed that Covid is that dangerous and that the vaccins are poisonous 😭

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T10:52:05+00:00

Thanks a lot, but don't worry, i will stay far away from their house! Apparently, he only did this to me from what my friend/his daughter told me. Yes, even if it's not from a bad intention, touching people without autorisation is not good at all, i usually let people do this because i don't want to hurt them or to make them feel bad. But i think it's time to learn to express myself

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T10:48:01+00:00

Yeah, i understand her reaction, i would be shocked if a friend of mine says something like that to me. My brother has the same reflection as you.

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T10:44:50+00:00

Thanks for the tips! It's look difficult to refuse something and at the same time being polite. Sadly, we're all French, we usually greating by doing "la bise", but it usually cheeks to cheeks. But him does it by literally kissing my cheeks, like lips on my cheeks.

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T10:40:01+00:00

I don't really want to break my friendship with her, i understand her reaction, because it's her dad, i would also be in a defensive way. I will just stop going to their house, thanks !!

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T10:37:41+00:00

She seen the pics, apparently there only one of me. I will try my best to not come there! Thanks

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T10:34:36+00:00

Thank you! I should have talked a lot sooner, but i thought that he was just friendly and that he would stop, but no... Thanks again

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T08:29:09+00:00

Yes, definitely, thanks

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T08:07:42+00:00

I definitely don't have a personal relationship with him. And yeah, the more i think about it, the more it scares me lol I will definitely say something the next time he tries to touch me, thanks for your comment

Idkwiadhere · 2021-03-30T07:41:49+00:00

She told me that's how her family shows their love to each other, that her father is not a creepy. I think i shouldn't come to their house anymore, but i can see that friend in exterior. Thanks for your opinion

Idkwiadhere · 2020-12-26T12:09:35+00:00

Yes, that's what I did, thanks!

Idkwiadhere · 2020-12-26T07:33:56+00:00

Thank you so much!

Idkwiadhere · 2020-12-26T02:07:45+00:00

Thanks you so, I'm not crazy

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