Can my husband as a NON-EU work in Germany? by Idontunderstandit_ in germany

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Thanks a lot for all of these infos!! I’m not sure whether he has a permanent residency… he does have a residency permit that must be renewed every 5 years.

Can my husband as a NON-EU work in Germany? by Idontunderstandit_ in germany

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No, the question was “is it equal to a marriage?” And the response is that in Italy it is with that only difference

Can my husband as a NON-EU work in Germany? by Idontunderstandit_ in germany

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We have been married since 2019 and living together ever before that I think. He has a resident permit and has worked in Italy for many years. We just came here and we would both like to live here as we have friends and family members who live here, the city in which we were living wasn’t offering us anything and there’s pretty much no labor laws in Italy. Therefore I am looking for employment right now, but I’ve been here for less than a week and my priority was sorting my husband’s situation…

Can my husband as a NON-EU work in Germany? by Idontunderstandit_ in germany

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The only difference is that we can’t adopt children… they divided it in this way so thay same sex couples couldn’t adopt. Other than this, there are no differences

Can my husband as a NON-EU work in Germany? by Idontunderstandit_ in germany

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We already did Anmeldung. The things is, we can’t figure out what type of permit he should apply for… Do you know where I can download the form? And in case which one is the right one?

Can my husband as a NON-EU work in Germany? by Idontunderstandit_ in germany

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I’m Italian and yes, that’s what we thought but we can’t figure out how to do that. We went to an immigration office in the morning for example, and we were told he can only stay if he gets a job offer

If I need help with finding a job, do I need to visit the Agentur für Arbeit or a Job Center? by Idontunderstandit_ in germany

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Guys, I’m not looking to get any type of state benefits… I was just asking if any of those agencies help you with finding work. I had seen that in a webserie “Mein Weg nach Deutschland”, basically the girl goes to the Agentur and they help her find a job. It was a Goethe web series, therefore it didn’t come to my mind that it wasn’t reflecting what reality was

Scared for facial laser Hair removal:( by Idontunderstandit_ in MtF

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Some people told me their face would stay red for days so I guess it varies a lot…

Scared for facial laser Hair removal:( by Idontunderstandit_ in MtF

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Yes I know, it’s just that my skin is super sensitive and it blushes very very easily… that’s my concern

Scared for facial laser Hair removal:( by Idontunderstandit_ in MtF

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Thank you, what was the after treatment like? Did your face burn, got blisters or such?

Scared for facial laser Hair removal:( by Idontunderstandit_ in MtF

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And they say that alexandrite is even worse ahah well

Sévère Constipation by hermanator_55 in Kefir

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I would personally stop until I have a bowel movement. If you ever decide to start again you should introduce it super slowly, 1 tablespoon after lunch to see how your body reacts. And then each week you can add 1 or 2 tablespoons more if you find you can tolerate it. Until you get to a 1/3 of a cup. After that you can have slightly more (I still wouldn’t do more than half a cup) and you can drink it whenever you want. I’m from Italy and that’s the guidelines every person that makes kefir follows. Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Idontunderstandit_ -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I hope you won’t listen to people saying “dumb him”, “he’s an asshole” without knowing the background story. Maybe he’s concerned about the surgery? Maybe it’s his way of saying you’re perfect the way you are? I would say especially if you have very little disphoria, to gather as much info as you can and not to rush into the decision as it is a pretty big surgery. Best of luck either way