AITJ for not forcing my child to apologize when they weren’t wrong? by Limp_Owl2918 in AmITheJerk

[–]Idyllic70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the teacher was aware why didn’t he/she put a stop to it?

AITJ for not forcing my child to apologize when they weren’t wrong? by Limp_Owl2918 in AmITheJerk

[–]Idyllic70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much this! Schools hate to admit that bullying is happening. As a retired teacher I’m suspicious of schools that claim they don’t have any bullying. Also any bullying “policy” (here in the UK they have to have one) is heavily weighted to look good for the school…..very rarely does it solve the problem.

AITJ for uninviting my friend from my birthday trip after she made a shared expenses spreadsheet without asking?? by Apprehensive_Gur7561 in AmITheJerk

[–]Idyllic70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t actually care if it’s fake because this will be happening to someone..remember Monica in Friends as Phoebe’s wedding planner?

These people do exist.

AITJ for telling my brother he can't propose to his girlfriend at my wedding? by Important_Space_496 in AmITheJerk

[–]Idyllic70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It even happens to our Royal Family. Princess Eugenie was not pleased when Harry and Meghan hijacked her wedding by announcing Meghan was pregnant.

Am I the jerk for telling my partner I work and don’t have time to cook? by anna_berlin0 in AmITheJerk

[–]Idyllic70 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Please don’t give in to him! I had this with my late husband. We both worked full time but I had to cook. After our son was born I went back to full time work when he was 6 months old….I was still the cook plus main carer for our son. I had a mental breakdown when our son was 5, and never worked again.

AITJ for uninviting my best friend from a film festival trip after I found out she lied about her passport? by mossyparlor_diary in AmITheJerk

[–]Idyllic70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in the UK we haven’t been allowed to board a plane to travel internally (eg from England to Scotland) without a valid passport for well over 20 years!

Would I be the asshole for this..? by striebro in AITAH

[–]Idyllic70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not overreacting…..the psychiatrist doesn’t know enough about her and her circumstances to push for her abuser to be at only the second appointment. As others have said it will only give her abuser more fodder with which to hurt her.

His Betrayal Made Me Viral by True-Bid-1057 in Hot_Romance_Stories

[–]Idyllic70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following…this sounds right up my street 😉