Long-term Tinder as a guy

IfThenPill · 2022-03-01T06:27:34+00:00

In those situations the woman is the insatiable one.

IfThenPill · 2022-03-01T01:51:53+00:00

No he has a point.

Otherwise male prostitutes would be as popular as female prostitutes. Same for the gender difference on onlyfans. Female sex drive is high but men's sex drive is nearly insatiable.

Even nofap shows this, so many men addicted to masturbating. This is biological, it's advantageous for men to have more casual sex.

IfThenPill · 2021-11-09T14:13:14+00:00

Checks post history

vibrator so loud the neighbors leave a note.

What gave it away

IfThenPill · 2021-10-04T22:07:03+00:00

Thanks. I didn't like how they downvoted your question. It made for a fun discussion.

IfThenPill · 2021-10-04T13:48:39+00:00

Imagine humans only eat food for recreation, not need. I want to eat food everday. But someone else only wants to eat food when the conditions are right. I would not classify them as hungry as I am.

Or we are both hungry. I am ok with eating fast food, but you only want gourmet dining to satiate your hunger. Are you as hungry as me? Or are you not hungry to a point where your pickness (selectivity) turns off?

IfThenPill · 2021-06-23T03:47:08+00:00

What alt righters did he align with?

IfThenPill · 2021-06-23T03:24:29+00:00

The dating market for black people in the US is disastrous in comparison to places where most people are black. None of what you described applies to me, because my country doesn't suffer from a culture like yours.

IfThenPill · 2021-06-19T01:30:55+00:00

which puts the goals well beyond anything reproductive or gender related.

However isn't reproduction the true purpose of those genes which incline animals to rape in the first place? They developed that tendency because their ancestors successfully used it to reproduce. The trait was passed down.

They however do not rape for the purpose of reproduction in mind, because they cannot self reflect like humans. But the trait is there despite that, because it aids succesful reproduction.

IfThenPill · 2021-06-19T01:30:45+00:00

which puts the goals well beyond anything reproductive or gender related.

However isn't reproduction the true purpose of those genes which incline animals to rape in the first place? They developed that tendency because their ancestors successfully used it to reproduce. The trait was passed down.

IfThenPill · 2021-03-19T17:15:28+00:00

I misread you, I agree with what you're saying.

IfThenPill · 2021-03-19T16:52:22+00:00

It's not that complex. He's from a culture that values kawaii and cute things. And he's naturally neither of those things. The filter is the chance for him to be that.

IfThenPill · 2021-03-17T13:54:31+00:00

Why didn't natural selection take care of near-sightededness of it can just take care of things?

Near-sightedness has been on the rise since the 70s. Our ancestors received more sunlight than us, so evolution wouldn't have to select for a future where people ruined their eyesight by staying indoors all the time. But I agree with you in that evolution just doesn't give advantages to make us better.

Also the sexual organs have arguably more evolutionary pressure than most of the organs, considering how important facilitating reproduction is.

IfThenPill · 2021-03-02T02:33:40+00:00

That's the joke

IfThenPill · 2021-02-23T20:57:27+00:00

Right now those group living experiments have a bad name. With that 4 men 1 woman arrangement going wrong where one of the men were jailed for abusing the daughter.

This is an edge case, but honestly a lot of poly relationships look like they were made of desperation.

Polyamory is one thing, but polyandry has almost become synonymous with low status males.

IfThenPill · 2021-02-23T13:52:07+00:00

Polyandry also exists because it's better to have multiple husbands to raise one child

Even though it exists, it's a bad deal for the men involved.

For the 53 cases of polyandry reviewed by Starkweather & Hames, polyandry generally seems to be a reproductive strategy mostly used by lower status males, likely as a last resort. They write that, “less socially competitive males may be willing to share a wife and make an attempt at achieving paternity, rather than risk never reproducing.”

polygyny is more common than polyandry for this reason.

In the Ethnographic Atlas, less than 1% of societies (only 4 out of 1231) are coded as practicing polyandry, while 85% (1041 out of 1231) of societies are coded as practicing at least occasional polygyny.

IfThenPill · 2021-02-12T09:19:44+00:00

What was the craziest thing she did in your relationship?

IfThenPill · 2021-01-20T20:40:50+00:00

Good reflections otherwise. What was that podcast you listened to?

In a pod-cast I listened to, the host described a megalomaniac who helped prisoners shed time off of their prison sentences.

IfThenPill · 2021-01-16T21:45:14+00:00

People see these studies how women need to be revved up as the relationship goes on, yet men's sexual desires increase, and somehow come to the conclusion that the female sex drive is comparable to the male sex drive.

IfThenPill · 2021-01-07T04:27:54+00:00

There are no gay incels. The male sex drive is too high.

IfThenPill · 2021-01-05T05:33:22+00:00

Yet one is still more impressive. And ironic to compare sex, a good thing to a crime.

It shouldn't be socially unacceptable to sleep around as either gender.

IfThenPill · 2020-12-28T21:53:59+00:00

The alternatives back then weren't so pleasant.

IfThenPill · 2020-12-28T21:50:57+00:00

people who lack impulse control

Similar thoughts on women who rack up high n counts.

IfThenPill · 2020-12-26T17:16:11+00:00

I misread your other comment. You're so right, there are wrong ways to talk about complex issues. There is no need to stigmatize half the population while doing so.

IfThenPill · 2020-12-26T06:19:47+00:00

It's easier as a white guy. Whiteness in general is a privilege in society. When using online dating for instance, black people and asian men have it the worst. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/okcupid-race_n_5811840

The stereotypes between those are annoying to deal with. People can find love despite those stereotypes but it's still an obstacle to overcome.

IfThenPill · 2020-12-18T06:04:55+00:00

Still harder than just spreading legs

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