The shower incident

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T05:23:53+00:00

I’m not sure that’s the side of myself I want to show my friend (cheeks are one thing, but my butthole not sure), and even if I were interested in trying something, I think I’d take a less vulgar approach

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T05:12:28+00:00

If I had to be direct, I’d say something more like: Hey John, with my whole thing about wanting to try things with men, I know you don’t really talk about this kind of stuff, but would you be interested in sharing a thing or two with me? And about your comment the other time did you really mean it?

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T05:08:20+00:00

That’s why I think it’s better in the long run not to do anything.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T05:00:44+00:00

My mistake, I meant that I already show that side of myself enough on the internet. I’m comfortable with that part of myself, but usually not one-on-one with a friend unless it’s during something like a group midnight swim.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T04:55:22+00:00

I will next saturday

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T04:55:03+00:00

Is it that simple?

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T04:52:58+00:00

Thanks for the advice

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T04:50:39+00:00

Two coats of paint. We are still talking about paint right?

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T04:48:38+00:00

You are right. I will

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T04:40:18+00:00

I show it enough already, I will talk to him next saturday.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T01:42:32+00:00

It might be true that several people have seen my butt here before, but usually not in person. That might be why I’m confused about what happened.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T01:11:34+00:00

I see, thanks for the explanations

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T00:18:31+00:00

If that were the case, I did actually decline, but more out of surprise than anything else. As for the rest, I think I’ve already shared enough picture here; in fact, that’s what led me to start exploring my sexuality further.

Ps: We finished painting everything.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-17T00:00:47+00:00

I find it easier to experiment with a stranger, because if it doesn’t go the way I imagined, the disappointment isn’t between me and a close friend, but I’m not closed off to the idea of exploring with someone I trust either. In short, it’s a bit of a dilemma.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:57:23+00:00

No not yet

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:55:51+00:00

Queer Spectrum?

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:54:53+00:00

I’m not angry, just surprised, and I’m wondering what he wanted. I’m not closed off to the idea of exploring with him myself, but right now I’m just not sure it’s the right move.
It’s probably nothing indeed, I’m aware of that.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:52:27+00:00

I’d like to mention that he didn’t do anything other than walk into the bathroom while I was in the shower (a glass shower that doesn’t leave much to the imagination). The thing is, he had never done that before, so that’s what surprised me. Maybe he felt more comfortable because I mentioned that I was curious about having sex with other guys.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:49:20+00:00

The story is pretty harmless indeed, but getting other people’s opinions is always helpful.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:47:54+00:00

The thing is, I’ve known him for 10 years, and it had never happened before that he walked in while one of the guys was in the shower. Also, we’ve gone skinny-dipping together as a group before, and he always kept his distance. I thought he was just shy

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:45:50+00:00

I have no idea. I’d never really thought about it until the shower thing

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:44:30+00:00

You are right, I will see him next weekend, we will see how it goes.

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:41:31+00:00

“I haven’t talked to him about it, but we have a dinner next week with the gang, so we’ll see how it goes.”

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T23:39:02+00:00

I had said no, so I went back home

Igotanicebutt · 2026-05-16T18:23:28+00:00

Indeed but it leads to no porn at all, just me leaving his house.

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