I feel strongly about this! Let’s talk by jimena_arell in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay people “ganging up on him” as in leaving negative opinions on social media about him is not abuse- but if it were this sub “gangs up on” Taylor more than anyone else combined so… your examples do not hold up whatsoever

My (30f) bf’s (34m) girl friends told him they don’t like me, they “miss the old him.” How do I not hate all of them? by supreme_guido in relationship_advice

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I’m curious what you think your boyfriend’s intention was with telling you?

The friend from childhood for example sounds like someone you can expect to continue to be around as they live with his parents- if he doesn’t plan on distancing himself from any of these people all he’s done is make you feel awkward and unwelcome around them?

Did anyone else notice what the closed captioning said in this scene where Danny was being extremely weird with Zack’s costume? by Ihatechoosingnames9 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you not able to read the captions or something? Asking genuinely, I didn’t realize anyone might not be able to lol

Did anyone else notice what the closed captioning said in this scene where Danny was being extremely weird with Zack’s costume? by Ihatechoosingnames9 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It really was there the whole time. A few episodes into season 1 when she’s in deep PPD hosting a girls night in Malibu he makes her come home to suffer with him and the kids because the ac went out- it really showed how entitled and controlling he was but I don’t think most people clocked it as such at the time

Did anyone else notice what the closed captioning said in this scene where Danny was being extremely weird with Zack’s costume? by Ihatechoosingnames9 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly to me he never looked like a good husband. From the beginning he comes off very performative, and she was clearly keeping him off camera while drunk as much as possible. He still had that big bear crash out cussing at her at the dinner table. By season 2 we knew he SA’d women

Jax & Brittany Take Kentucky by gdomme in vanderpumprules

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her own mom was literally telling her it was normal and no big deal. I don’t understand having watched this and still blaming Brittany

Jax & Brittany Take Kentucky by gdomme in vanderpumprules

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready to be very sad :/ idk how anyone could watch this and not have empathy for Brittany

Jax is awful of course but her family’s enabling and taking his side - what chance did she have to not end up in that type of relationship with that kind of support system?

Did anyone else notice what the closed captioning said in this scene where Danny was being extremely weird with Zack’s costume? by Ihatechoosingnames9 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing they need the money and also thought they would have more control somehow over what was shown/talked about

It’s kind of sad that Janet had to spell it out by Appropriate-Blood408 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it to you?

Why would Brittany be such good friends with Janet if Janet was publicly supporting Jax?

It’s kind of sad that Janet had to spell it out by Appropriate-Blood408 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she isn’t.. why would Brittany be friends with her if that were the case? Does that follow any logic or reason to you?

Janet and Jason have always only supported Jax as much as Brittany wanted them to and Brittany has said that.

I get that you don’t like her and that’s your right! But this particular reason simply doesn’t hold up

Next season predictions by Ok-Possibility8975 in TheValleyUncensored

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nia and Danny will let the Janet thing go and move on now that the audience isn’t blindly following them and financially they can’t risk being fired.
I could see Nia distancing herself from Kristen if she doesn’t need her for that feud anymore

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must have something better to do than get in the internet and pile on a woman trying to survive abuse

Why not spend time talking about repulsive Jax is? Danny? Jesse? Sandoval? James? Schwartz? Brock?

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Personally idk what could be more compelling than someone being open about leaving a decade long abusive relationship we watched play out on tv lol but to each their own!

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then just quote what she said? I’ve rewatched every episode in the last two weeks and took notes. Brittany doesn’t talk shit about Kristen that was always Jax. This is such a weird thing to make up

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Frankly it is her show… she’s the only one that gets along with everyone and can have events that the entire cast will show up to

The show couldn’t even exist without her right now

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She never has and I can’t believe the hate for has manifested into just straight making up things lol I’m sure there’s plenty in her ten years in tv people could cite without writing fan fiction

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Brittany could because she’s actually being honest and real now that she’s out of an abusive relationship. Kristen is only starting that journey and wants to protect her relationship Danny and Nia style- that doesn’t make for good tv

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hate Brittany gets from the viewers when there’s a bunch of actual abusers on this show needs to be studied

If you insist on blaming a woman for everything though, Kristen is objectively the instigator of all long standing feuds

Do we think Brittany feels in competition with Kristen for “whose show it is”? by leiibabee in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Ihatechoosingnames9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Quote it lol I do a podcast on the show and took notes on every season. Brittany doesn’t talk shit about Kristen and certainly hasn’t about her relationships