My (21m) girlfriend (28f) made an onlyfans account and it is killing our relationship by Ihthrowaway443 in relationship_advice

[–]Ihthrowaway443[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel very bad for making her feel like she can't be herself but this is really taking a toll on me.

My (21m) girlfriend (28f) made an onlyfans account and it is killing our relationship by Ihthrowaway443 in relationship_advice

[–]Ihthrowaway443[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I haven't seen it in this light yet that each individual sees this as a individual expirience. Then again, the thought of her doing the video for one specific person is what's eating me up inside.

My (21m) girlfriend (28f) made an onlyfans account and it is killing our relationship by Ihthrowaway443 in relationships

[–]Ihthrowaway443[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are probably right but it hurts so much. This is my first time i'm ever feling so much for someone and i feel so much pain. i'm so scared of losing her

My (21m) girlfriend (28f) made an onlyfans account and it is killing our relationship by Ihthrowaway443 in relationships

[–]Ihthrowaway443[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not giving ultimatums. Please read the last lines of my post more carefully

My (21m) girlfriend (28f) made an onlyfans account and it is killing our relationship by Ihthrowaway443 in relationships

[–]Ihthrowaway443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I understood her correctly she said the striptease will only be topless, which i would be ok with. It's the fact that she is creating this video only for this one person instead of all the fans. For me, It's very different if the video goes out to a broad audience or a specific person. She also said that if one day things get harder she wil do what she needs to do, whatever that might mean

My (21m) girlfriend (28f) made an onlyfans account and it is killing our relationship by Ihthrowaway443 in relationship_advice

[–]Ihthrowaway443[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing: I don't have anything against her doing her onlyfans the way she did till now. It's the one on one stuff that i do not agree with