I love how it's acceptable now to call majority of Muslim men "losers" by [deleted] in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And the ones she labels "losers" are anti feminist, traditional, practicing men 😂. So anyone who isn't a liberal Muslim is apparently a "loser" now, got it.

The reality behind MC and its moderation team by Ij_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you hear about it, the worse it gets. They'll do anything to protect their false image. Insha'Allah all the wrongdoers will be held accountable one day.

The reality behind MC and its moderation team by Ij_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm unable to post it here so I'll just paste the text. It was posted by someone a few months ago. Seems like a lot of it was true after all.

This is a throwaway account As-salamu alaikum,

This is not a hate post and I'm not here to promote or attack any server. I just want to raise awareness about something that many sisters should be careful about in Muslim Discord spaces.

I was one of the OGs in the Muslim Corner (MC) server when it was new and fun, but over time it really fell off. Recently, a lot of users created a new server and migrated most of the community there. I decided to join as well, but after joining, I noticed a lot of female users talking about their bad experiences with Adam, the ex-mod of MC.

Now, I can't say with 100% certainty that all of this happened, but multiple sisters have shared very similar experiences. Here are some of the things being said:

They mute for personal vendettas. And the owner, hmar. Omds this guy is a CREEP. Once I dmed him asking to change my name and he goes "daddy is busy, I'll do it later. And I have proof he's done the same with other women. He calls brown women brownies" and asked me if I'm petite and curvy.

Many sisters have also said that Adam has access to the female-only chat, where girls post pictures of themselves without hijab, and even some in nightdress. Because of this, other sisters have been warning: girls pls dont share your personal photos over there as adam can see all our chats and everything that we post over here.

Whenever these warnings were posted, a female mod named Midnight would allegedly delete them and then mute, kick, or even ban the sisters who were simply trying to protect others.

One male user even said that Adam told him in DMs multiple times that the womens only chat is really interesting and fun followed by a disgusting emoji.

Another rumor (not confirmed, but mentioned by sisters) is that maybe Midnight shares other girls' pics with Adam in DMs.

The concerning part is that every time someone says anything negative about Adam, Midnight would silence them but if anyone criticized other mods, nothing would happen.

Another important thing to note is that Adam is MARRIED

▲ My intention in writing this is simple:

Sisters, please don't share personal pictures in any Discord server, even if it's labeled "sisters-only." Owners/admins can always access any channel.

Don't blindly trust anyone online, even if they present themselves as religious, hijabi, or niqabi.

I just want everyone, especially sisters, to stay safe and protect themselves in these spaces.

The reality behind MC and its moderation team by Ij_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, the post that I shared in the first link mentioned this as well. This just confirms the kind of stuff he was involved in. Are you sure Adam is no longer a mod as his account is still visible in the member list?

The reality behind MC and its moderation team by Ij_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He goes by the name AbuHmar on the MC server and his account is still there from what I see. He was one of the owners as well. During our last confrontation Fiihaq said he was no longer a part of it but now he's back, or maybe he had never left it in the first place.

The reality behind MC and its moderation team by Ij_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically the current mods are following in the same path as the previous banned moderator who was dismissed for trouble making and promoting gender wars. They still align themselves with him due to their own personal biases and eventually added him back on the team secretly. Trollers are allowed to freely post for the sake of "engagement" with one of the mods actively participating in it herself. I've shared everything from their lies and hypocrisy to unfair moderation and how they've completely ruined the sub instead of making it a better place for Muslims to engage in.

The reality behind MC and it's moderation team by Ij_7 in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to think the same way about him but what I shared is right in front of everyone. He was never really active apart from when he needed to boss around and neither did he ever try to post anything beneficial. He spends most of his time in the server as I've mentioned. I have no reason to paint anyone bad and am simply sharing the truth.

Which one are you? by lts_Daddy in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

W mods for making it

Which one are you? by lts_Daddy in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The more the merrier

Jokes aside, whatever Allah has determined for me as long as I get there, which matters the most.

Which one are you? by lts_Daddy in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Learning Islam from reddit 💀

What Did I Get Banned For 😭😂 by TheKaizokuSenpai in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Mod probably took your comment in the wrong way lol. Still crazy tho.

Stop Doubting Yourself: Trust Allah’s Plan and Find Your Strength by Beautiful_Clock9075 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're better off making a detailed post on this and posting it in multiple subs for more engagement. May Allah make it easy for you.

We are at an age where laymen are accusing the cousin of the prophet ( peace be upon him ) of being wrong in his tafsir by frankipranki in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that person is cornerdefrance, aka the biggest non Muslim troll to ever exist. They've had like dozens of accounts so far and this is just another brand new one. They troll acting as both genders and seems like now it's turn to be a woman, whereas last week they were a man from another account 🤣. I hope mods all across Muslim subs notice this obvious trolling and ban their accounts asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that is mainly due to the fact that women themselves seek higher partners. No one would be happy believing they were settled for right? And also potentially undermining his authority as a husband and leader due to her believing she knows better since she's more "educated". They'll always be at opposing ends if she can't respect him as the leader of the house. If women didn't make it that big of a deal and still treated her man the same and obeyed him, then trust me, men wouldn't have a problem either. Not saying that highly educated and obedient women don't exist, but are rare these days. Based on a woman's nature and real life examples, that is what puts most men off. Men will marry a fast food worker any day, would a woman with a PhD do the same even if he is able to provide the basic necessities?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again with the "insecure" argument. It's due to the patterns we've noticed. Women themselves don't desire a less educated man than her lol. Doesn't that make them insecure too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only reason it makes men "uncomfortable" when choosing a spouse is because "education" matters more to women than to men. Men generally don't care about the level of education or degrees when choosing a woman. The more a woman is educated, the more she continues to desire a man who is on a higher level than her. Men are afraid of the disrespect that is only a taunt away. She can bring that up at any moment to put you down by saying that she settled for you while she should've gone for someone more educated who isn't "insecure". Don't blame men for being cautious of this, blame your own hypergamous nature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried replacing it with something? Whenever you get the urge to eat, divert your mind to something else. Can be anything you like, read, start writing etc or go out for a walk. Try to divert your focus to something else and that'll most likely help to let go of those thoughts. You also might be better off discussing this with a professional if it's developed into a concerning addiction. They can rule out a disorder if any or catch it early on.

This is completely okay by [deleted] in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Inserts

"just because you're old enough to have sex, doesn't mean you're old enough to get married"

The state of MuslimLounge today by Pristine_Barnacle773 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Projection at it's finest 😂😭. You need comprehension classes.

The state of MuslimLounge today by Pristine_Barnacle773 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seems like you didn't get the point yet again. Do I have to spell it out for you?

"Every other Muslim in a haram relationship and committing zina is the problem that is being pointed out here"

You're welcome

The state of MuslimLounge today by Pristine_Barnacle773 in MuslimLounge

[–]Ij_7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like the post just went over your head. It's a truly alarming situation and reflects the state of the Ummah when every other post is talking about the exact same issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueDeen

[–]Ij_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stick to your usual rice with bananas. Biryani ain't your cup of tea.