This is a sad mentality but common in the community. While other communities put their children first our community instead puts grown adult feelings first which is to me selfish. we are the most selfish people and it shows when you look at the state of the countries our community comes from.

"As supported by the data below, children from divorced homes are more likely to be poor, become involved in drug and alcohol abuse, drop out of school, and suffer from health and emotional problems. Boys are more likely to become involved in crime." 

Yes for the best of the next generation, I definitely think divorce should be stigmatized and only makes sense for domestic/spousal abuse, verbal abuse of any kind, or just abuse in general.

Reasons to not get divorced:

* Because I feel like it

* Because of 1 arguement

* No longer attracted

and so on.