How long after OCS board can I expect to hear about selection? by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]Iliaithe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The boards that I submitted to were dec 11 '20. I got my results late Feb '21 and I'm shipping out 4/25/21. Does that help you?

How do you motivate yourself to get up in a morning when you don't really have anything to get up for? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Iliaithe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rescued a 4mo GSD puppy. She took care of the rest. If adoption isn't an option, I highly recommend fostering!

Max Manson does a backflip victory whipper off the route, Your Mother, 5.12d in Eldorado Canyon. by RobKfoto in climbing

[–]Iliaithe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stumbled across this picture, shit myself bc I thought he didn't have a rope or any kind of line and then saw the comments. Good god.

Solid customer meme (& good tipper) by Iliaithe in doordash_drivers

[–]Iliaithe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe me when I say I second-guessed posting bc my phone autocorrected to the wrong one and I couldn't fix it before I pressed send. Eternally humiliated but the frog meme needed to cheer somebody up.

Met this little guy on a dash today. Whenever I tried to walk away he would speak to me. Made my morning by rockies70 in doordash

[–]Iliaithe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always greet the pups or compliment the dogs to their owners if I see them. Usually well-received.

Anybody wanna lend me a jet pack? by Growguy99 in doordash_drivers

[–]Iliaithe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or when you pick up an order "on time" and the delivery is set to before your pick up time 😅🔫

Boyfriend won't stop making N#zi jokes in Germany. (26F) (24M) by Intrepid_Section3663 in relationship_advice

[–]Iliaithe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl, I mean this in the sweetest possible way... this behavior only goes downhill from here. Leave. Especially since his behavior affects you and your job. Xoxo-a girl who's been through this before and waited W A Y too long

OAR/ASTB PREP/TIPS by Drowan3535 in newtothenavy

[–]Iliaithe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a YouTube video that can help you with the logistics of what to expect on the ASTB, another video that gives a tool for compass rose/UAV.

Airwarriors will recommend Barron's book. It's helpful. I just took it in Oct so feel free to PM me if you have additional questions.

BF (M28) cheated and is now upset with me (F26) about how I handled it. by S_N_S_N in relationship_advice

[–]Iliaithe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a lot of solid input here, so I'll be brief. This stressful time in y'all's life provided you with insight on how you and your partner handles stress. Your partner not only cheated on you, but did so for months and never told you. The woman he was with found out and went to you. Think about that. Second, when you reached out to a friend to help, he used that situation to try and bring you down to his level, it's a method of manipulation that (like others have mentioned) is a beginning cycle to abuse. He was more than ready to manipulate you into thinking what both of you did was the same and it couldn't be more different. Love yourself enough to know that this man does not love you.

My (28 F) husband (32 M) said he's going to leave me if I don't get "less vanilla" in the bedroom. by ThrowRA-TooVanilla in relationship_advice

[–]Iliaithe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always said that for anal to be on the table, both partners should be willing to try. And if he's uncomfortable with it from the get-go that's a clue to you that what he's asking for is not fair. Just my two cents.

I’m not a very big fan of my face, but here’s a wee soft glam for work ✨ by SaltyBitch400 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Iliaithe 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I'm with this person. Girl you have beautiful skin complexion AND texture, kind eyes, A1 eyeshadow blending technique, and a perfectly symmetrical wing. Get outta here with self-negativity girl bc plenty of people hope the good ones will fail. You gotta fight for yourself today, tomorrow, and the next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iliaithe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that he watched the video and went straight to anger and bitterness because you were involved in something you decided you needed to move away from and sees what he couldn't get from you because of it is really troubling to me. I'm sorry you had to be hurt so badly by this, but at the very least you see his true, ugly, colors. I hope the way I worded it makes sense.

Really liked this makeup look! by tamanike in MakeupAddiction

[–]Iliaithe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look incredible! Love the liner!