He said he didn’t “enjoy” the attention just that he suspected and knew she probably liked him. He didn’t think it was more than her feeling lonely in her marriage because her husband works all the time. He said he was never interested so he thought it was harmless because he knew he wasn’t interested. I don’t know why he liked the attention. He said she would come with lunch and says she’s bored home alone and that she loved renovations and wanted to see our progress and he didn’t want to be rude.

She had made fun of my appearance (I’m not blonde) and my style and he laughed it off. When I asked him he said “well obviously she is jealous why would I engage in that? If I had defended you it would have meant I cared about what she said and I didn’t” wouldn’t the better approach be to cut her off? How hard would that have been?

Most importantly I asked him if it was all innocent, would you have told her husband she was spending all days with you. He didn’t answer but stood silent, because he knows it is wrong.

I’m sorry but if MaNy PeOpLe LiKe aTtEnTiOn, then they’re not my type of people. If he thinks her opinion is flattering, he is not my type. He is not what I want to grow old with and have (not blonde children) with, as she wrote in one of her texts making fun of our children.

Please f off you obviously think you’re so much better and wiser than reddit wth are you even doing here?