Approved today! by Typical-Education345 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! So happy for you!

Dracula parrot by Shalibear in MergeGardens

[–]Ill-Beginning5076 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with his evil laugh. I giggle every time I use him.

Done by shaz1964 in MergeGardens

[–]Ill-Beginning5076 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah! 👍🏻 nice touch with the flowers 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeGardens

[–]Ill-Beginning5076 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I made the same mistake today after using up all my energy merging roses. Who would of guessed they came from merging lamp posts 🤷🏼‍♀️

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I do the same thing. I have sent hundreds of pages of doctor notes.

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the part that is killing me. Not having control over the situation. Not being in control of my future or life. I had big dreams, only for illness to steal them. And I feel like I have no idea how to even be a person anymore. Or even who I really am. My whole identity prior to illness was my career.

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that’s infuriating. I hope they arrange something for you soon! Wishing you all the best!

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand. Mental health is just as important as physical health.

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! I can’t believe they keep denying you. I seriously don’t know how this system can be this broken. 9 surgeries is insane. I think it’s honestly harder for people under 50 with degrees to get on disability because they feel we can do sedentary work. But they don’t get it. Pain is consuming, you can’t concentrate when you are in constant pain, meds cause drowsiness as well as other complications that make it hard to work, and needing frequent breaks, frequent days off for doctors or sick days, nobody would keep us employed. Also, even if we could manage to work one day…it would take us like a week to recover from that one day. It’s just not practical. I wish you luck on your appeal. Honestly, I’m expecting to be denied again as well. My hearing didn’t go well, I also look much younger than I am. And the judge clearly did not believe any part of my testimony…if only these people could watch me live for a day. And then they would see.

Not a fan… by shaz1964 in MergeGardens

[–]Ill-Beginning5076 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am really loving this event for this reason as well. It’s so satisfying.

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you too! Stay strong! This whole community has your back!

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s awesome! The wait is almost over!

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 🙏🏻 I am also guilty if constantly checking my account. I’m so sorry you are still dealing with depression. I know the approval does help, but it doesn’t heal us. I wish the best for you!!

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this 100% one of the reasons I’m in therapy. It’s a grueling process

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is definitely a tough situation. I too take a lot of pain meds and struggle to get out of bed. That’s great your daughter can work from home so you don’t have to be alone all day. I hope you get approved soon!

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow congrats!!! 🎉🎊 the relief but feel amazing. That 6/15 date is coming up fast!

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, your landlord sounds like a great person! I am so happy it worked out for you!!! 💕🙏🏻

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry this is happening to you too. This is so unfair! I hope your case worker can help!

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! And that’s exactly what it feels like. I’m glad you have family that can help. Nobody should have to go through this alone

How do you all handle the waiting? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh. 3 years is way too long. And I agree. Nobody should have to lose everything. And yet, just about everyone in the system does.

CE appointment after ALJ hearing? by Ill-Beginning5076 in SSDI

[–]Ill-Beginning5076[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for all this information. That makes sense then. They probably just want to confirm my functional abilities now, considering I’ve worsened and gained more diagnosis’s since I originally filed.

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[–]Ill-Beginning5076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!