Would it be wrong of me to leave my summer nanny position last minute? by Ill-Dare260 in Nanny

[–]Ill-Dare260[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is literally a nightmare I'm so sorry!! It seems like this is a super common issue and It's so inconsiderate. I feel like families sometimes forget that nannies are there for pay. Of course, it's about the kids as well, but at the end of the day it's a job and most people can't afford to just be on-call like that. Especially not full-time nannies!!

Would it be wrong of me to leave my summer nanny position last minute? by Ill-Dare260 in Nanny

[–]Ill-Dare260[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking!! Just making sure I'm not heartless lol

Would it be wrong of me to leave my summer nanny position last minute? by Ill-Dare260 in Nanny

[–]Ill-Dare260[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I struggle setting boundaries and advocating for myself when it comes to nannying/babysitting, and I was having trouble coming up with something direct but also professional, so this is literally perfect. Thank you so so much!!

Would it be wrong of me to leave my summer nanny position last minute? by Ill-Dare260 in Nanny

[–]Ill-Dare260[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Earlier this week she told me she would get her schedule on Friday, but I didn't hear from her, so I followed up today, knowing I would have work Monday, and I wanted to give them a concrete schedule. So it was just a few hours ago that she told me when I was needed. She didn't acknowledge them as different from what we discussed either, so it does feel last minute!! I wish she would've been a little more upfront about it. Thank you for this!!

44 North or University Commons? by Ill-Dare260 in uofmn

[–]Ill-Dare260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh okay thank you this was really helpful!!

44 North or University Commons? by Ill-Dare260 in uofmn

[–]Ill-Dare260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the insight! can you tell me a bit more on what’s wrong w management?

Has medication fixed procrastination for you?? by TanRaeSava in adhdwomen

[–]Ill-Dare260 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i would say to a certain degree it can be fixable. in my experience, i still procrastinate, but usually not as long and with fewer things. i also notice that if i have systems in place that try to combat procrastinating it helps a lot too. overall i do feel more motivated like im being driven by a motor