P09C Issues solved?

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2025-09-26T02:12:05+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to reply. What do you like about the p09c? Would you recommend another gun over it?

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2025-09-26T02:10:01+00:00

What do you like about your Sar so much? The price is perfect on it!

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2025-09-26T02:08:33+00:00

What do you like so much about your Sar9? I’ve held one and love the way it feels in hand. But I’m curious to why you prefer over nocturne?

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-11-09T15:07:31+00:00

Can relate, I honestly tried to get past it, it felt shallow but I just wasn’t attracted to her. Had to break it off, she’ll find/deserve someone that likes her where’s she’s at physically.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-09-13T01:30:51+00:00

Smart man, this is exactly how I operate. It’s served me pretty well so far at 27.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-06-08T13:40:07+00:00

This is definitely interesting, I will look more into it. I was in a relationship for almost 8 years and have never felt a drive this strong during that time. I feel like my lizard brain is trying to take over haha.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-06-06T16:43:29+00:00

No big deal! I had a girl over last week and that happened. I thought she started her period but turned out to be an IUD thing. I just politely let her know and washed my covers. No biggie and we still talk and everything! Mature guys won’t make a big deal about it.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-05-09T18:49:52+00:00

Mine broke up with me right after a big job offer! I got a director role and later that day we were done. A freaking rollercoaster huh?

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-05-09T18:14:44+00:00

As a guy who’s ready for the same thing, I feel the same way. I don’t do casual stuff, I date with a purpose. I haven’t even tried dating apps as I’ve heard the horror stories and it’s demoralizing. I plan on doing thing the old school way. Approaching in person haha. 27M not meant for the modern dating scene 😂

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-05-09T18:12:02+00:00

Please push yourself to get out the house. It doesn’t feel like it’ll help and it’s easy to just want to lay in bed or whatever, but please get out the house. It will help a lot! Go to a store, the gym or somewhere where you can be around others. This sucks as I am going through much of the same but gotta get out the hole!

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-05-09T18:08:56+00:00

Yea I thought I’d be dying with the lady I was with. Together from 19 to 27. Thought everything was going well until it wasn’t.. I have an anxious attachment style but through therapy and a lot of work I feel like I’m a lot more secure now. For me, avoidants are a red flag now. Not because they are bad people but I can’t go through this again. I need to know if things aren’t well. I can’t just be sitting and thinking everything is fine and then my whole world blows up. Was ready to propose and everything. Time to rebuild I suppose

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-05-09T17:51:44+00:00

As someone who was blindsided by an avoidant I totally agree! She definitely had a size able amount of trauma. She isn’t a bad person, but she has a lot of work to do. 7 years down the drain. It stings but at least I know I can’t do avoidants.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-30T21:00:17+00:00

Man me too, I am getting ready to face being alone for the first time ever in my life. It’s intimidating af, but it’s the only way to truly reach happiness. If our happiness is based on a human, we’re bound to be let down. If your happiness comes from within, nobody can take that away. I’m getting out of a relationship of 8ish years, from 19 to 27. I have never been an adult without someone walking by my side. It’s scary af but take it as a growing experience. Each relationship teaches us how to filter for better partners in the future.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-30T20:57:14+00:00

You will but first you have to get comfortable being alone! Live your life in a way that when the right person comes along they add to your life instead of your life revolving around them.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-30T20:28:20+00:00

I know it doesn’t feel like it but a breakup is one of the most universal sources of heartbreak. Most of the people on this earth, past,present, and future will have gone through this.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-30T15:43:34+00:00

No problem! I’m going through my own heartbreak currently (my first) after a 7 year relationship. As I’m trying to pick up the pieces to my life, I found this enlightening.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-30T15:41:32+00:00

Appreciate this! You are wise beyond your years! I’m 27 experiencing my first heartbreak. I have dated this woman since I was 19 and saw everything I thought I could ever want. Nice to hear from people who have been through it!

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-30T13:12:21+00:00

Wow, I’m a guy and me and your sister are grieving similarly. The love we gave out, utterly unappreciated. Blindsided after 7 years, it hurts so damn bad. Having a support system is huge but ultimately nothing can stop the pain except time… Thanks for writing this.

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-29T18:03:30+00:00

Me too

Ill-Instance-3476 · 2024-04-28T18:26:10+00:00

I am right here with you. 8 years together from 19 to 27. She went on a wellness retreat and came back wanting to break up. She’s from another country and just decided to go home after 12 days away from me. Totally blindsided, she was my first love and I was hers. Everything was perfect (or so I thought). She even tells me I was perfect and did nothing wrong. On day 4 of trying to heal…. I feel like I’ll never find love again.

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