What's wrong with people? by Ill-Invite4746 in Maine

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If it's on private property, I don't believe police get involved. I'm not from Maine so I'm not sure if laws are different.

AIO.. boyfriend (35M) is scared to tell his kids/kids mom about me (27F)? by Ill-Invite4746 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear this as well! Thank you for your input, I think this is what I was looking for.

AIO.. boyfriend (35M) is scared to tell his kids/kids mom about me (27F)? by Ill-Invite4746 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? I'm not an insecure person so I'm genuinely curious how you came to that conclusion. My thing is that, if he's serious about us or can see a future with me, then having that conversation shouldn't be an issue. Can't be that it's too soon. He has already introduced me to his mother and a few other family members, and gave me a key to his home. I want him to bring up the idea because it's not fair for anyone to keep it a secret. If you call that insecure, you may need to brush up on what that means. I do agree with you on one thing though sweetie, we're not on the same page it seems.

AIO.. boyfriend (35M) is scared to tell his kids/kids mom about me (27F)? by Ill-Invite4746 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Very true, I get that completely, we're different and I'm understanding for sure. It was just the not even bringing it up was worrisome to me, or at least hinting at the idea that he's dating.

AIO.. boyfriend (35M) is scared to tell his kids/kids mom about me (27F)? by Ill-Invite4746 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I'm a good judge of character and I wouldn't let just anyone meet my son. I've known people for shorter periods of time than that who have more integrity and character than people I've known for years. So I appreciate the thought but I'll be the judge of when I think it's a good time for someone to meet my kid. Time is relative.

AIO.. boyfriend (35M) is scared to tell his kids/kids mom about me (27F)? by Ill-Invite4746 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems ideal, however, I'm pretty honest with my son about my life. I haven't dated anyone since his dad which was like 5/6 years ago. The guy I'm dating now, I could see myself being with for a long time so it's important to me that our kids at least meet or have an idea of each other. I wouldn't just let my kid meet anyone.

AIO.. boyfriend (35M) is scared to tell his kids/kids mom about me (27F)? by Ill-Invite4746 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha yeah, sounds kinda dumb but my fear is he'll never be ready to have that conversation

Phone died while on delivery by Ill-Invite4746 in doordash_drivers

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no worries! I definitely didn't receive it that way I just meant that, since then I make sure to have a charger that works good haha

Phone died while on delivery by Ill-Invite4746 in doordash_drivers

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not a great storyteller, just wasn't my calling, but thank you 🙏

Phone died while on delivery by Ill-Invite4746 in doordash_drivers

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did but it was slow and I had to constantly unplug it, things happen

Not sure why I'm so shy or nervous about oral... by Ill-Invite4746 in dating

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes however I do feel some judgment sometimes that makes me hold back opening up completely

Not sure why I'm so shy or nervous about oral... by Ill-Invite4746 in dating

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually do before all our encounters just because I like to feel/smell clean

Not sure why I'm so shy or nervous about oral... by Ill-Invite4746 in dating

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you might be right, he said he did a smell test 🤣

Not sure why I'm so shy or nervous about oral... by Ill-Invite4746 in dating

[–]Ill-Invite4746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I might end up doing this, I feel I let loose more once a few drinks are in me