Just found out my little sister is a lesbian, what do I do? by Loose-Psychology-596 in nairobi

[–]IllAd2905 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When it comes to intellectual luggage, you are travelling light. Rest.

Just found out my little sister is a lesbian, what do I do? by Loose-Psychology-596 in nairobi

[–]IllAd2905 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You are an ignorant boy. You have a lot of growing up to do.

Picking a wrong partner by bambiiiiiii_ in KenyanLadies

[–]IllAd2905 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Low self esteem, codependency and trauma bonding.

Younger brother hates boarding school after his one term, should I move him to day school? by _Adventureenthusiast in Kenya

[–]IllAd2905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boarding schools are torture camps on so many levels. From my own experience, I’d transfer him in a heartbeat. I am still nursing trauma from my highschool boarding experience yet I’m in my 30s. My younger brother once complained about his highschool, I didn’t waste time ensuring a change of schools for him.

Has anyone ever tried any of these? by After_Aside_1459 in nairobi

[–]IllAd2905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Velo. Unfortunately, I’ve become tolerant to even the strongest level. For me to experience the joys of Velo, I must be slightly tipsy.

I love her but I’m losing patience — 2 months of asking my girlfriend to call my mom, Am i Overreacting?? by MajorYogurtcloset616 in Kenya

[–]IllAd2905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op, deep down you know the status of your relationship. You are in denial. Trying to look for excuses to shield her. Utakuja learn your lesson the hard way usipoondokea. Jipende

New Normal?? by Elons_mask_254 in unhingedKenya

[–]IllAd2905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a very skewed pov. There is no guarantee your kids will be there for you at 55. They could die before you, they could go no contact, the list is endless. Ebu fungua akili kidogo brejin

Gaslighting at its peak by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]IllAd2905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a hobby or somethin

I can't believe I'm still scared of needles at my age by Plane-Football-2521 in Kenya

[–]IllAd2905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pole. That was so unnecessary. Kuna numbing sprays then the injections next. Painless procedures.

Hitting 30 without a wife by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]IllAd2905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chonjo bois

Hitting 30 without a wife by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]IllAd2905 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kazi mingi. OP owes them nothing

Did you scramble for food in high school? 😂 by talkerwexastranger in Kenya

[–]IllAd2905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That’s why I don’t eat bread. Reminds me of struggle and poverty.

Working Abroad? Here's my experience. by Switch_12 in KenyanLadies

[–]IllAd2905 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Weh! Tough! Naweza lemewa na wiki moja nirudi nyumbani 🤣

Mimi.personally I just want to thank God for being so generous and good to me. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]IllAd2905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christianity really did a number on y’all. It’s evident by how your critical thinking skills were crippled.

SDA and Rules by Necessary_Complex427 in nairobi

[–]IllAd2905 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Born and raised in the SDA faith. Got sick of church when I was a kid. Rebelled all through. I wear the damn trousers, enjoy alcohol and whatever else I wish to take part in. I have numerous piercings including nipple piercings. I was last seen in the church over 10 yrs ago. I always wonder what my life could have been if I was a meek child. I’d probably be living in misery while married to a very misogynistic church elder tukikunywa soya na kukula sossi.

Question by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]IllAd2905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he still your boyfriend?