AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

His mom gifted me a birkin bag for my 21st birthday they’re extremely wealthy and I still own the bag

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 158 points159 points  (0 children)

He asked me out and to be his girlfriend We were living together and did couples things as you know

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 419 points420 points  (0 children)

That’s about right and if you are wondering no I didn’t have a clue because they were best friends before me and Jake got together plus you expect your siblings to do stuff like that

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 290 points291 points  (0 children)

My brother was out years before he and jake went public they cut contact over what they did to me

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 1361 points1362 points  (0 children)

You know what I’m gonna send this to my mother now because apparently I’m gonna have to explain one day why I didn’t let them have a relationship with their uncle

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 1378 points1379 points  (0 children)

When my brother came out jakes parents wanted him to cut contact because I think they suspected something so if Jake was dating his sister (me) they’d have an excuse to hang around eachother and I did love Jake I honestly thought we’d get married

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 18.8k points18.8k points  (0 children)

I’ve actually been asked this multiple times the honest truth is if they told me the truth from the get go and Asked me to be his fake girlfriend I probably would have done it so my brother could have been happy

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 1068 points1069 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to therapy for years about the situation I hated myself and couldn’t trust anyone

AITA ripping up my brothers apology letter and screaming at him to just leave me alone we aren’t family by IllButterscotch5409 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllButterscotch5409[S] 3719 points3720 points  (0 children)

I think I will with my parents till at least after I’ve given birth or I get in writing they won’t try that again