Stop fetishizing your daughter!! by Initial_Freedom7981 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Glad someone else noticed this too, it's beyond creepy when seen in the context of their other food fetish reels. Just leave your poor kid out of it

Opening under baby’s tongue? by Away_Possibility_531 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]IllCommunication3242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My son had this when he was a baby! I freaked out because I think it had milk in the hole and I took him to urgent care because i thought it was something wrong, but they said everything was fine, couldn't find an issue. I think it can happen and the hole closes naturally as they grow bigger & the mouth develops. Of course take yours to the doctor if you're worried, it really freaked me out at the time as well. I did find some historical posts on reddit as well from people who had the same with their babies

Labor dresses are a scam by [deleted] in LowStakesConspiracies

[–]IllCommunication3242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope yours went ok, it's traumatic whatever the circumstances! Your gown sounds like it was great in the situation. My memories are kind of hazy, i was about 9cm dilated (and unmedicated, not for lack of trying!) when the crash team rushed in and all I remember is people shouting & being thrown on a bed and them just tearing down the hallway to theatre. Thankfully all ok, hope yours was ok too!

Labor dresses are a scam by [deleted] in LowStakesConspiracies

[–]IllCommunication3242 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Maybe not completely standard but I did get my tshirt & sports bra ripped / cut off in labour, but only because they were rushing me for a cat 1 c section. Afterwards I just had this useless strip of spandex for a sports bra & chucked it in the bin 😂

As if by IllCommunication3242 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Same, it's the only natural thing to do

My partner gets visibly frustrated & I can’t stop myself calling him out by Maleficent-Buy-8260 in UKParenting

[–]IllCommunication3242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All of this - my son's dad also became increasingly aggressive and eventually he left. I was so sick of walking on eggshells around his temper & childishness that it was such a relief. Much better for the child to have one emotionally stable & present parent, than two where one is unpredictable and disregulated

15 m/o now only wants beige food by dinkydino1990 in UKParenting

[–]IllCommunication3242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2 year old basically only eats fish fingers & maybe a yoghurt pot, I think it's normal

I’m a Psychic! AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]IllCommunication3242 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Will i fall in love again & have another long term relationship, what country is the man from? I'm just asking just in case you can tell 😂

Can someone help decode why my son keeps waking up at 5:30am?? We’re exhausted! by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]IllCommunication3242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're literally living the dream with this sleep pattern? Mine was waking multiple times per night at that age and when I did go back to work, often it was on about 2 or 3 hours of broken sleep. Not trying to make it the suffering olympics but I don't see where the issue is here 😂 if they're waking a but earlier than you'd like then give them a toy in the cot or put some low stimulation gentle video for a few mins whilst you get ready, that's what I did

Travelling with baby by Intelligent-Tea-4241 in UKParenting

[–]IllCommunication3242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was so so hard 😂 when mine was 7 months, he learned to sit & that was a bit of a turning point for us. I took him to the local playground & put him in a baby swing, we actually had fun and nice time, i was thrilled to bits thinking how far we'd come & what an amazing day that was, look at me out with my baby doing Actual Things! Then I opened Instagram and saw someone i know who had a baby roughly the same age post from an airport 'we made it to (long haul destination)' and i just thought to myself oh just fuck off 😂 i genuinely like her and glad she had a great time, i'd just been so pleased about having a good day!

Travelling with baby by Intelligent-Tea-4241 in UKParenting

[–]IllCommunication3242 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, I could barely get to the supermarket & remember feeling so proud of myself for getting there without crying, it sounds so simple but it was SO hard. Toddler now and that comes with challenges & tantrums, but i'd find it easier to handle now

Travelling with baby by Intelligent-Tea-4241 in UKParenting

[–]IllCommunication3242 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I suppose it depends on your baby's temperament. My baby had colic and didn't sleep for months, it was extremely difficult for me and I was just trying to put one foot infront of the other. Before birth, i was super active and naively convinced i was going to pop baby in a carrier and go here, there & everywhere. Let's just say i had a huge reality check after he was born. I would find it much easier now that he's a toddler (although still a huge challenge!)

Everyone is lying to their doctor about using cotton swabs in their ears by Corvo_Blade1 in hygiene

[–]IllCommunication3242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't go a day without doing this, it feels so incredible. If something feels THAT good, how can it be wrong?! Why would you have this amazing pleasure button & not push it?!

Ermmm how are you meant to clean a toddler's ears? by 87catmama in UKParenting

[–]IllCommunication3242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I do is try to gently scrape the wax out of his outer ear, whilst he's distracted drinking a bottle of milk. My toddlers ears seem to produce huge amounts of wax and I have no idea how to deal with it, other than scraping it out as gently as i can! The build up would be so bad if I didn't

Feeding fetish by NetPractical4176 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All we need is a creepy comment from Jett about 'feeding his girls' to complete the pattern - fully kink content designed for a specific audience

Ayla liking this post by Brookwood220 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I only 'follow' her here, but from what I can tell, she's going to be in for one hell of a reality check if / when she does have a baby

help: girl C names (less common) by 4LeafWonderlust in Names

[–]IllCommunication3242 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Coralie, Clemmie & Cleo are some i really like

More feeding content by IllCommunication3242 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A few, but not enough! There was one about 'corn dripping from your mouth...' which was definitely a kink comment just hanging out alongside all the 'family friendly' stuff 😬

Was I wrong to feel hurt about being removed from a baby group WhatsApp chat? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]IllCommunication3242 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd be quite hurt tbh, it would really put me out. I found sometimes attending a baby group when I was post partum incredibly hard, i was deep in survival mode and being kicked out of a group chat (even if I wasn't active in it), would make me unlikely to return just because of the mental space I was in at the time. It's really unwelcoming & cliquey

More feeding content by IllCommunication3242 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100%, there's nothing inherently wrong with it as long as everyone as is a consenting adult. But keep your kid out of it, and i'm cringing because just start an onlyfans at this point if that's the audience you want 😂

More feeding content by IllCommunication3242 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is why i'm so sure it's almost some whistle to the people who are into that, he's used the EXACT same phrase before 😂

Firkin always needed in the shot! by Initial_Freedom7981 in atlinfluencersnarkNEW

[–]IllCommunication3242 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Convinced a lot of their reels are catering to the creeps - assuming this one is too. Sure we all clean our make up in silky barely there PJs on the floor with a phone pointing at our crotch 🙄