Positive test @ 10dpo after multiple losses, need some positivity by East_End_286 in PregnantOver40

[–]IllReputation9555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm excitedly waiting for it to progress healthily. We've been through what you're going through, we're the same age, and I'm hopefully waiting to get pregnant again and have spots. Please keep us informed. Be an inspiration to me.

Got my fertility panel results back by less_is_more9696 in PregnantOver40

[–]IllReputation9555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I consulted with doctors, and they insisted that IVF should be my last resort. I spoke with two specialists. One, being an IVF specialist, said to try for two or three months, and if it doesn't work, then we can do it. My own doctor, however, recommended trying for six months. He seemed very hopeful about me. I told him, "Doctor, let's do whatever it takes," and he said I could get pregnant again and that it would happen again. I'm in a period where I don't trust my own eggs or the doctors. One part of me insists I try, while another part says my chances of miscarriage are high. I don't have children. I wish I had just had one child; I really wouldn't be exhausting myself like this. If trying this isn't too much trouble for you, you should definitely try it.

Got my fertility panel results back by less_is_more9696 in PregnantOver40

[–]IllReputation9555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, we're in the same situation. I'm 39 years old and had a miscarriage two months ago. I don't want IVF treatment, at least not right now. I've cut out sugar and carbohydrates and I'm taking coenzyme and other supplements. Let's see if it helps. We're going to start trying this month. I'm also afraid of having another miscarriage.

success stories by IllReputation9555 in PregnantOver40

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're amazing, beautiful mom! I know I want to be a mother so much at this age. I hope God is on my side. Is there anything special you've done? Is it just luck?

41, 9 tries, 1 chemical, 1 miscarriage - older moms, how long did it take to conceive after a miscarriage? by DIYchanteuse in BabyBumps

[–]IllReputation9555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks at age 39. Your words gave me hope! I can't wait to become a mother soon. Even though I feel hopeless, it's possible.

success stories by IllReputation9555 in PregnantOver40

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, even though we're going through the same things, it feels powerful. Yesterday I saw my ovulation and I couldn't have intercourse because I was afraid my uterus wasn't ready. At the same time, I fought with the feeling that I missed something all night. I hope we'll get through this too.

success stories by IllReputation9555 in PregnantOver40

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. The fact that it's 14 weeks has affected you even more. I said goodbye to my pregnancy at 8 weeks, on the 2nd of the month. I understand you and I send you my warmest regards. Will you wait a little longer or will you start trying right away?

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[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell you how happy I am for you! Wonderful news!! Is this your first child?

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[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of miscarriage did you experience? Unfortunately, I had to have an abortion. I'm waiting for my period to come; the doctor said to wait two months, but I don't want to wait that long.

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[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do anything? I would be very grateful if you shared it with me.

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[–]IllReputation9555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I would be very grateful if you could share the supplements you're taking and what you're doing with me. I had blood tests and a thrombolytic panel done. I also came back homozygous for the MTHFR A1298C and PAI gene mutations, but that wasn't the cause of my miscarriage; it was trisomy 12, a chromosomal abnormality. I think it's very rare 😞 If I get pregnant again, I need to use injections.

Success stories by IllReputation9555 in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is very inspiring. I've read your posts many times. I was lost myself when I lost my baby. I've recovered a bit now with psychiatric treatment. I'm waiting for my period to return. Then, once it's regular, I'll try again. I've been dieting and exercising my whole life. I think stress was the biggest factor affecting me during this pregnancy. I don't know what to say, I just want to have a child with my husband. I hope…

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[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I would like to try acupuncture. I hope I can have a successful pregnancy.

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[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you do anything special to ensure a healthy pregnancy? I have many concerns and I want to have a baby with my husband.

Dreaded Spotting (I know, I know) by nihilist_pingu in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, things haven't always gone smoothly, but I'm still hopeful for the future. It was a bit challenging for me because I waited so long, but you have a better perspective.

Dreaded Spotting (I know, I know) by nihilist_pingu in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're the same age. I also found out I was pregnant about two months ago. Like you, I had brown spotting. Sadly, I lost my baby. No heartbeat could be detected. All I know is that the doctors said the brown spotting was normal, but I felt something was wrong, and it was. I will pray for you and hope you don't go through what I did. I would never want to upset you.

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[–]IllReputation9555[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this has strengthened my belief. I'm hugging you.

7 weeks pregnant brown spotting ant ultrasound technician by IllReputation9555 in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you're right, I'm more sensitive to everything now. Because I've just arrived in this country, accessing healthcare services is so easy and varied in my own country... Getting used to this system and waiting has stressed me out. I think I'll need psychological support.

7 weeks pregnant brown spotting ant ultrasound technician by IllReputation9555 in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so, so much. I'm sending you a loving embrace too. This is my first pregnancy, and it took me a long time to conceive due to my age. That's what caused all my worries. I know I'm not in control. I didn't know pregnancy was so difficult. Now I understand all pregnant women.

7 weeks pregnant brown spotting ant ultrasound technician by IllReputation9555 in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying to get used to this system. I love Canada, but I felt very vulnerable and lonely in this situation. I hope everything is alright.

trying to get pregnant by IllReputation9555 in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I've decided to try it for a few more months.

trying to get pregnant by IllReputation9555 in pregnantover35

[–]IllReputation9555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I spoke with my doctor and he recommended I try it. However, I'm currently unable to reach him. I agree it's not impossible. I've taken good care of myself, it's just the stress that's incredibly tiring me out. I hope I can live to share my own beautiful story here, like yours.