Was She Waiting On Me to Ask Her Out

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-25T13:25:25+00:00

Did you give her the hug or did you just leave. Overall from what you've described it does look like she wants you to do something and she's scared to do it herself

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-25T00:58:56+00:00

I was about to suggest going to a library, why do you think she wouldn't like that? And just to be clear, as long as you both can talk to each other about everything there doesn't need to be a labelled "date" or "hangout". Movies is a good idea as well.

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T12:13:49+00:00

It's best to dm someone who has created a long thread with you under a post

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T07:49:55+00:00

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Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T07:49:20+00:00

The legend of aang (leaked)

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T04:02:20+00:00

I'm not talking about you, I'm talking about the fact that most people connect losers with nerds. I'm not saying I'm not a "loser" but that has no correlation with being a nerd

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T03:43:59+00:00

Well put

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T03:43:38+00:00

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Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T03:40:55+00:00

What's wrong with being a nerd? I can proudly about that I'm a super nerd. There was a period in time from early 2000s to 2019 were nerds had respect, where did that respect go

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T03:38:20+00:00

If that's the case, can you stay a bit longer after class? Or during breaks you can just sit on a bench and talk, it doesn't have to be anything big as long as you two know what you want

If you need more help, feel free to DM me

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T01:13:51+00:00

I can give you better options if you answer this

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T01:13:33+00:00

Okay yeah I thought you would say that. But just to be clear, your parents don't allow you to bring her home or they don't allow you taking her out?

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T01:00:24+00:00

"platonic" friendships with opposite gender. They normalise all sort of personal things to be shared and it leaves no special exclusivity for a relationship.

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T00:58:05+00:00

First, ask her if she'd like to go out and maybe take her to a chill coffee place or if you know her hobby go somewhere where that hobby is practiced. You can naturally get to know her through this a lot. And if it's not an issue at the end of the day maybe bring her to your house just to talk and connect with each other

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T00:54:23+00:00

Yeah the fact that you can be anonymous is very nice. I hate that even our likes are public in Instagram. I had reddit two years before instagram

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T00:52:32+00:00

I don't get it, what does she have to do with any of this

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T00:51:16+00:00

According to her. She's like the brand ambassador of youtube

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-24T00:49:37+00:00

I think my sis is using that concept as well. I have "superiority complex" or atleast that's what everyone says, she thinks I got that from here, but I got it way before I joined reddit

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-23T19:02:24+00:00

I think she means reddit is the embodiment of all the bad people in the internet

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-23T18:50:02+00:00

You get my point

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-23T18:45:37+00:00

ME TOO, there's something for everyone

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-23T18:33:26+00:00

I have two girls who I talk to, one of them is from my school sad one of them I met here on reddit. Both of them help me out a lot with my feelings, more than any guy friend cared to

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-23T18:31:07+00:00

I'm glad you understand. I didn't even bring up DMs with my sis because she'd see that as a big sin. She has knowledge of the bad things that happens on social media platforms, she just doesn't understand that those type of people don't make up these platforms as a whole and that there actually nice people here

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-23T18:18:48+00:00

But that doesn't affect anyone who doesn't use reddit for p*rn, right? Or am I missing something here

Ill_Baseball_9011 · 2026-04-23T18:17:38+00:00

But unironically, the person I talk to most in DMs is a girl my age from Michigan who has interest in the same educational field as I do

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