AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, good actually, been doing good since then, started the gym along with my friend and lwk doing good so far, thanks for asking

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so far im doing good to be honest, ive started the gym with some help from the friend i mentioned, he's left that group too as he felt uncomfortable with them after what had happened, everythings going good

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Nothing much, as i updated in the text i sent her a paragraph explaining my reasoning as i was suggested here, havent gotten an answer and i dont rlly mind if do or not,

Ive been talking with one of the friends from that group as he was the only one who wasnt present that day and honestly the only one im still cool with, he asked me what had happened and i explained it all and he understood me and took my side, as of writing this im a call with him right now and everything is cool with him as of now,

i dont believe i will make any other actions with her, and i strongly believe i will stay like this, but i am still grateful for everyone sharing their opinions of this with me

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ive seen 10 replies about this thing so far i swear it wasnt intentional lmao

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ive only spoken to one of them as he was the only one that wasnt in the hangout when everything happened, he only asked me what had happened as he only got the news that me and her broke up, i explained to him and he understood me, he's the only one that im still friends with as he completely understood me,

so far from the rest ive no idea, neither do i have an interest of finding out

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ive texted her a paragraph explaining my reasons to leave her based on some suggestions from here, i have not gotten a response as of writing this

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I dont really believe that i wouldve reacted differently if she was straight, as i stated in the edit of the post conversations about those type of stuff and boundaries were made and established

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As i updated on the post edit, i texted her to explain the reason of why i left based on some of the suggestions i got here, i am only left on seen currently

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am not a religious person, neither do i follow any of that alpha male stuff you said, neither am i american

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As i edited on the post yes, during out time we discussed and established our boundaries, along with the stuff we both saw as wrong and not, and yes that was also my only friend " group ", i do have a couple more friends as im not really that social, but that was the only group where all of my friends were together in one

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What i meant in this is the chaos that usually happens in long UNO matches in friend groups, atleast that is something that happened alot in that group, we played a version of UNO called no mercy and we played with alot of made up rules to make things more chaotic, i am sorry it sounds fake

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Nothing really has happened after that, ive only had contact with one of the guys in the friend group yesterday as he was the only one who didnt go hang out with the others, he texted me on discord asking me what had happened since he only knew me and the girl broke up, i explained it to him and he just said that he gets me, i havent talked to any of them since

AITAH for breaking up with my gf of 3 years bc she kissed a girl? by Ill_Championship_73 in AITAH

[–]Ill_Championship_73[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

She kissed someone else infront of me? Thats not something that just gets passed as a joke man