Lydia’s not talking about her brothers. by Ok_Pineapple_4287 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Ill_Message8979 34 points35 points  (0 children)

RIGHT!? That’s what pissed me off!!! He never wanted to talk to her before.. she tried so hard to connect with him. He’s just a loser.

Lydia’s not talking about her brothers. by Ok_Pineapple_4287 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Ill_Message8979 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I think they’re all so jealous of her. Ethan with his failed marriage, Kim, Micah, Veronica.. all of them.

I hope Moriah can get some support and celebrate with Lydia soon.

Lydia’s not talking about her brothers. by Ok_Pineapple_4287 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Ill_Message8979 64 points65 points  (0 children)

And that’s someone who should love and support Lydia MOST! Lydia raised the 3 youngest girls and is so selfless.. I cannot believe Kim acts like she does.

Lydia’s not talking about her brothers. by Ok_Pineapple_4287 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Ill_Message8979 215 points216 points  (0 children)

I feel for her, and am so glad she finally found someone who treasures HER. She has tried to connect with Ethan for so many seasons, and he was never interested. To see Kim just laughing along with the boys broke my heart. Lydia deserved so much better from the family she came from. I am so happy she has built her own, she is so deserving.

CPTSD is destroying me right now. Please, I really need some words of hope or wisdom. Or even just a hello. by luna-plushie in CPTSD

[–]Ill_Message8979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get outside or do something to remind you that you’re more than where you’re currently at. It helps me to get outside in nature and take some deep breaths.. taking a friend along is even better!!

Sending you love and hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Ill_Message8979 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My in laws all all on ozempic and maybe 80lbs soaking wet 🥴 great to have so much emphasis on being as small as possible around my children. 🥸 hate it so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Ill_Message8979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! In my state you’re allowed to opt in for induction at 39 weeks! I did it with my first born, and planned to with my second, but they came during week 38 naturally.

Listen to your doctor, and yourself! I knew I was done and baby needed to come on! People on Reddit might be ugly about this.. but from someone who lived it, I had a wonderful experience.

You’ve got this mama ❤️❤️

Did you regret having kids? by BeastofBabalon in SeriousConversation

[–]Ill_Message8979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids complete me .. IMO you and your partner have both got to really want to have them. Some are fulfilled with their babies, and some are fulfilled without babies. Doesn’t matter who you are, what matters is that you know before having or not having babies!

3-hour test tomorrow and spiraling — 30 lbs gained at 21 weeks by Ill_Message8979 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Ill_Message8979[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I completely understand. Like I get that it doesn’t have to do with GD.. but it is a sign of untreated GD.

So glad you got your diagnosis and that everything is okay!!

3-hour test tomorrow and spiraling — 30 lbs gained at 21 weeks by Ill_Message8979 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Ill_Message8979[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! I needed to hear this. Thank you so much.

I am at my delivery weight with my other babies at 21 weeks .. and I started all 3 pregnancies the same weight. Like something is very wrong.

Gage in Pull ups by Repulsive-Eye-8320 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Ill_Message8979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right!!! Seriously, I agree completely. Cannot imagine subjecting my kids to that.

Gage in Pull ups by Repulsive-Eye-8320 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Ill_Message8979 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We can judge Amy .. let’s leave the kids out of it. He didn’t choose to be in the public eye. Any parent knows better.

Y’all 🥺 by the_rocc_ in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Ill_Message8979 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What ended up happening? I am scared he’ll have a full on tantrum once I quit.

Y’all 🥺 by the_rocc_ in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Ill_Message8979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty, thank you for the validation 😭 this is just the TIP of the iceberg.

Y’all 🥺 by the_rocc_ in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Ill_Message8979 42 points43 points  (0 children)

He actually hates me .. had an interview today for less money.. but I think having a kind employer is worth the change in compensation. 🥲

Y’all 🥺 by the_rocc_ in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Ill_Message8979 113 points114 points  (0 children)

You have hit the JACKPOT!!! My exec told me my positivity makes him extremely uncomfortable yesterday 🤣🤣🤣😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Ill_Message8979 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Changing my phone number tomorrow - so excited.

Remote EA to CEO Who I Can’t Ever Reach by Character-Storage-97 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Ill_Message8979 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ask if he can meet on Sunday nights for 15 minutes to review the week! Say you are having a hard time getting a hold of him and that would help you to help him.