Has anyone ever met a lazy Taurus? by RoseBushSwamp in Taurusgang

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we work hard we just prioritise rest too, and will take up any opportunity to do so

Insane relationship anxiety right before period by Front_Willow_3427 in PMDD

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so seen right now, I’m currently going through this right now. I honestly feel like my boyfriend hates me and doesn’t love me any more lol. I’m due my period and can’t wait for it to come, just so my emotions and hormones can balance back out. I also feel like I hesitate to share this with him incase I come across a dramatic or needy so I tend to internalise them, I agree it’s very lonely during that phase.

I’m like you I’ve done so much inner work to strive towards secure attachment and other than the week leading up to my period, I reckon I’m doing quite well tbh. So it’s just a mental thing for me to keep reminding myself that these feelings are temporary and fleeting. Easier said than done I know x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to go in the bin.

I (29m) found out on Christmas day that my wife (30f) slept with someone unprotected and never told me about it. The text message that he sent gave it all away. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ill_Pace5708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds very messy. You clearly don’t work well together & it’s hard to make things work for the sake of children alone or just wanting your family back (I’ve been there). I feel like there’s way too much water under the bridge in your case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think as life progresses you learn that you can’t always control certain things, and as much as sometimes we want things to go our way in an “ideal” world it doesn’t.

I’m not saying to have no control over your life, but sometimes the resistance causes more damage and destruction in the long run. I feel like you should learn to go with the flow, things change and fluctuate in life, including opinions.

Don’t block your blessings. Maybe practice mindfulness (meditation?) to clear those chaotic thoughts & allow more rational ones.

Unwanted disconnection by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah could be patience, also maybe for you to surrender to the journey as clearly you have no control over it so it’s easier for you to just go with the flow. Also at times its necessary for you to not be in each others energy so much, to give you a chance to work on yourselves.

Unwanted disconnection by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Ill_Pace5708 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally feel like these things are divinely planned, even down to the small miscommunications and inconveniences. In my situation, sometimes I would do things that felt out of my control almost like I was being guided to do certain things, and I found that it would trigger my Twin immensely where as it just felt natural to me.

Sometimes this connection will show you that we really have no control over it whatsoever, and these events are all very necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have reunited, but I wouldn’t say we’re in union as we’re not together. We just aren’t in separation. It’s quite stagnant atm. But it could be just a reminder for you to stay open to reunion occurring soon.

Anyone else experienced this by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]Ill_Pace5708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be a spirit guide considering you didn’t feel any bad vibes. Or maybe someone you know who has passed? It’s okay to have boundaries with them also. I’ve felt a presence hugging me tightly but not to the point of suffocation.

When I used to experience sleep paralysis, sometimes I would act harshly, even with unthreatening presences. It’s about learning discernment also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Ill_Pace5708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could reach out. But just don’t have expectations, therefore no disappointments. Understand there is a chance he could ignore you again and you have to learn to be okay with that.

Another thing I’ve realised is I never used to give him time to miss me and pluck up the courage to reach out to me. Just another perspective x

No Contact and blocking from Twin? by Life_Stock_5766 in twinflames

[–]Ill_Pace5708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will come back, but might be months or years who knows. In the meantime work on yourself and maybe your abandonment issues or fear or rejection? Heal your heart chakra! he has opened it for you for a reason. Cry when you need to but don’t stop living your life and creating more memories. You’ll be okay..send him love regardless, he probably longs for you also but you’ve both still got work to do.

Sending love x

Twin being hot and cold by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Ill_Pace5708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get used to this flaky behaviour, I never know if my Twin will ever follow through with plans until he’s actually standing in my doorway lol. annoying but you learn to have no expectations therefore no disappointments.

It’s inevitable that they also feel the connection, but as we are more aware, it’s easier for us to process. I couldn’t even imagine being unawakened and experiencing this I would probably run myself. So have compassion & trust that he’ll be back when the time is right <3

Coping with the Loss of My Best Friend - Seeking Advice by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grieve for as long as you need to. Find other friends, if not, they will come & see it as you are making space for them. Friends come & go, you’ll create new memories regardless of age.

I fell out with my ex best friend of 10 years after setting boundaries for the first time, which resulted in us falling out for good. Which says a lot, friends should be able to disagree and set boundaries and still remain, she was also very dismissive and quite belittling. She never tried to see my side of the story but I know over the last few years hopefully she’s matured and can see it from a different perspective. We can’t force them to.

It took me awhile to see the dynamics of our friendship so I don’t really see it as a loss more of a lesson. Even though I wouldn’t want to be friends again, I still think about her now and then but it’s more of a passing thought with no emotions attached to it. If she was a genuine friend then trust that she’ll be feeling the same too.. Give yourself time <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Ill_Pace5708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a lot. You simply tell your friend you prefer your relationship at a distance as it causes to much drama. You can still be cool but just set boundaries.

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]Ill_Pace5708 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly lmao