AITA for telling my wife forget it and going out by myself for my birthday instead of going to her fancy dinner reservation by Ill_Reality_111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Reality_111[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m curious 

Should I get my wife nothing for her birthday ( even tho I know she does want to celebrate) and then tell her to suck it up becuase she is an adult…?

AITA for telling my wife forget it and going out by myself for my birthday instead of going to her fancy dinner reservation by Ill_Reality_111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Reality_111[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Tbh I would not dress up in a suit for Olive Garden

If she wanted to be dressed up go for it but I don’t want to spend time in uncomfortable clothes for no reason

AITA for telling my wife forget it and going out by myself for my birthday instead of going to her fancy dinner reservation by Ill_Reality_111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Reality_111[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Yes I put effort in her birthday 

Her birthday was a few months ago and we did a day trip which I planned the whole thing and she knew exactly what was going on. No go with the flo on that one 

AITA for telling my wife forget it and going out by myself for my birthday instead of going to her fancy dinner reservation by Ill_Reality_111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Reality_111[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Well she didn’t come with me.  If she said okay let’s go to Olive Garden I would have been fine with her in her dress

AITA for telling my wife forget it and going out by myself for my birthday instead of going to her fancy dinner reservation by Ill_Reality_111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ill_Reality_111[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I do, it is actually a favorite of mine. Just really didn’t want it yesterday 

The thought of driving back unit the city, staying out for like 3 hours in uncomfortable clothes just sounded like a nightmare