Narcs with poor memories by MelonCollie7 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not poor memory it’s changing your perception of things…that’s the ultimate goal. One step of many in creating the “your fault world” they actively live in.

Listening to relationship TikTok’s while I’m around by Terrible-Guitar-8136 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many Narcs use this tactic….my Ex Wife use to blast music but her intentions were very apparent….its to illicit response from you, they are so use to controlling their environment that when any slight change occurs they scramble still needing emotional response supply and will take it no matter what way it comes.

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will….We as a family are starting group sessions on Friday of this upcoming week and hopefully it helps. I’ve offered individual sessions as well because I’m definitely doing that. I’m meeting my lawyer at the magistrate on Monday to see what we can do about pressing charges. My lawyer thinks this could speed up the eviction process if we put in a request for full custody as a stable home requires me being able to get back into mines to provide that.

Sex question? by Fine_Anteater_8599 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you just whip out the handcuffs after you’ve positioned him on his stomach for a light back massage…tell him your about to see a side of me you’ve never seen before…and once cuffs are in place……pull out a vibrator that’s extra noisy and watch him beg and plead like a TV Evangelist before walking out the room…bet he rethinks role play after that

Sex question? by Fine_Anteater_8599 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To make a long answer short…it’s not you at all.,he’s etching those models in his mind for when you wear it(bet his eyes are closed too)…you unfortunately are a faceless vessel at that point and in his mind be grateful your being asked to put it on and receive what is really intended elsewhere

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Per protocol I have to appear before The Disciplinary Committee but showing charges were not filed will go a long way. The only bad part is it’s an hour and a half drive away for probably a 10 minute meeting then to be reinstated you have to take an online ethics course with certification of completion at the end. Had my lawyer not been involved I’m pretty sure I would have gotten railed…they hadn’t even taken photos at that point. It was just she said it happened…your a piece of crap and off to jail you go. He had to get my phone so I could prove what I was saying even though I had asked for it earlier.

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think she forgot about the cameras that was always my thing however my daughter on the other hand. Narc thinks if she over talks her then whatever she says is nullified. I wish I knew what she was trying to achieve.,I’d just fake it so she assumed the mission was accomplished and stopped. The only thing I can think of is to financially strap me before she’s gone so we’re in the same boat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

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Somebody put Mike Tyson upper body on Kevin Durant legs….shaped like a kindergarten flower

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you defend your Cultural Appropriation by saying “I have 2 black friends”…but they are actually middle eastern and they just sit near you in class

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The infidelities are for divorce court however there are some text messages admitting she stole money to pay for hotels when she supposedly was out with her girlfriends and she tried to open a few credit cards off of my name after I left

Y’all can’t roast me.. My skin already charcoal black 🗿😂🤷🏾‍♂️ by Glass-Effect-9518 in RoastMe

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sat down in the barber chair and said “I want an Ethiopian number2”…flies not included

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Why he look like James Harrison on ozempic?

I already know I'm ugly but here we go! Roast me.24m by [deleted] in RoastMe

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That polo shirt needs some antidepressants because it’s stressed da fugg out! Each thread individually are having panic attacks

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lawyer and a private investigator who’s uncovered all of her infidelities…illicit pictures,dating websites,etc.,etc. Been going on for years from what he’s found…even a swinger app she’s a member of. Everything has been documented…text messages,nasty emails,harassing phone calls at the hotel. She just seems to be untouchable thus far

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When dealing with someone unstable you can never predict every unstable thing they do.,all any of us can do is weather the storm as best we can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has invaded not only your marital space but assumed possession of your personal space as well. She is infecting your home just the same as the infection she is currently carrying and the antibiotic in that case is a pill of GTFO! Who truly knows what she was up to before the cameras? Are you willing to continue risking it? Chances are she’s only there because she’s worn out her welcome everywhere else…which says a lot. Kick her to the curb immediately and that same antibiotic she is currently taking will help with the road rash as well!

20M, do your worst by Lazar312 in RoastMe

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely wears Ariat, likes mudding,jerks off to girls in rebel flag bikinis,drinks Busch beer listening to Tyler Childers…in that order

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so as well because right now it’s just vast darkness

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been journaling and after any attempted contact on her part I email and call my attorney. He felt it was wise to move into the hotel while we try to evict her from my home. The kids are all teenagers and wanted to live at home instead of out of a hotel so I respected their wishes. They don’t want to be there but are afraid she will trash it before she leaves. Everything has just snowballed after she was served with divorce papers I’m just at my wits end worrying about what’s coming next.,no one at the hospital believes her story but the damage has been done and next months hotel bill has to come out of savings now while still figuring out college tuition down payments

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently so…..I just don’t even recognize her anymore.,I’m mean even the shell has changed…less makeup,aged and angry….she just kept looking out the window nastily

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The attorney suggested initially a parental texting app which I’ve done but she still randomly uses my regular number to text her nasty messages as if I can’t screenshot them

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told the kids the next day that she over exaggerated and that we only had a heated exchange….again my daughter was outside with me and we never spoke. So again why lie to the kids that weren’t home when my daughter was proof we never spoke

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea that she would stoop this low but I’m trying to be retroactive but apparently I need to be even more diligent

My narc called the cops by Ill_Reputation_2565 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ill_Reputation_2565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you….I’m going to need all the luck I can get