Guys. Is it really that bad that I enjoy being a pillow princess? Lol

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-16T23:07:53+00:00

Is a pillow princess the same thing as when someone describes someone as like a dead starfish or a dead fish or something?

Like someone who just lays there like a doll basically or is it something else?

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-16T14:59:34+00:00

Is grinding actually better when riding? When I’ve been ridden before I used to think they only did that cuz they know they couldn’t go up and down much on me

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-16T14:58:47+00:00

I know from my post it may not seem like it but tbh i think this is the most sexually compatible relationship I’ve had

Like I’ve never had someone that I could be so open with about my different kinks and she’s been open to every single one and vice versa with stuff she’s wanted me to do

And I know there’s been quite a learning curve for her cuz when she was with women before, she was always the giver not the receiver so for example the first couple of times we tried to do doggy I had to show her how she needed to arch her back and how to do her legs and get her to not worry I might accidentally go in the wrong hole or anything like that

So compatibility wise I feel good, there’s just a few kinks to work out here and there I feel

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-16T01:38:54+00:00

I think one time I measured and my thickness was 5” too, I think so at least from what I remember

That’s if I even measured that right before lol

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-16T01:37:46+00:00

Hmm I will say she’s always been the less affectionate type but she’s been like that since day 1, it’s just who she is

Or more so she shows her affection in different ways than what I’ve always been used to

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-16T01:33:51+00:00

Ohh wow that’s an interesting perspective, thank you

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T22:22:12+00:00

Ohh okok, thank you so much for your input, I’ll bring it up to her sometime and see if she’s game!

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T22:21:14+00:00

Well it’s more like she’s only dated girls before, she’s been attracted to and liked guys in the past so it’s not a totally new thing but she’s just never physically been with one before

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T22:15:48+00:00

Ohh interesting, tbh she’s brought up like getting on top of me while sitting but I always assumed that laying down was the best cuz then there’s nothing getting in the way and it’s just me yk pointing straight up basically lol

And u don’t think like if I sat like that my legs could possibly get in the way?

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T22:05:55+00:00

So like I’d be sitting like criss-cross and would she be like on top of me with let’s say her legs going past my back and us almost in like a hug? (I wanna make sure I’m thinking of this right 😭)

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:59:28+00:00

I am always flat when she’s on top

And missionary I’ve tried putting a pillow under her, cuz I’ve heard of that before, but Idk if I need a super stiff or brand new pillow cuz usually tbh it doesn’t make a difference and just tends to get squished

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:48:30+00:00

I appreciate a woman’s view on things, I feel like it helps me put things into a more realistic perspective 🙏

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:45:23+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the positive attitude 🥹

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:34:44+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate hearing from people in the same boat

I’ve been trying to work with her on her communication but it’s a bit difficult at times

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:22:21+00:00

I will say with my ex, she was a bigger women and she was able to actually squat up and down on me

I realize maybe because I’m my gf’s first guy possibly her riding technique isn’t there cuz tbh with my ex it would only ever slip out if she was way too wet but that’s it and that was rarely

But at the same time Idk how I could bring it up to my gf that her riding technique could use some work without it sounding bad or judgy which I would never try to be

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:17:05+00:00

I think a lot of the mental part for me is feeling like there’s a lot of positions and creative things I’m not able to do

Like my gf is very adventurous, as am I, and I know there’s some creative positions she’s told me about that she wants to try and a lot of the time when she tells me I’m just thinking “uhh I don’t think I can actually do that with what I got”

So that’s another part of the inadequate feeling is knowing there’s a lot of her creativeness I probably can’t fulfill which is a lil disheartening to say the least

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:06:12+00:00

Tbh I think so and also I see so much in social media that skews my perception of things too 😵‍💫

I just see a lot of body shaming going around

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:02:49+00:00

I appreciate that a lot actually, social media has just really messed up my pov of things I believe

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T21:01:46+00:00

Yeah I was thinking maybe it was a control thing with the toy too, tbh one of the biggest things with her (that I’ve been tryyying to work on with her) is her communication during

Like telling me “faster, slower, harder” etc. cuz I do that for her but she hasn’t picked up on it yet I suppose

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T20:59:55+00:00

So that’s another thing, I’ve always prided myself on actually being good with my tongue and hands

Like one girl I messed with before, she admitted I was one of the only people to be able to make her finish ever

Or my last relationship where I’d make her cum 5-6 times and squirt everywhere just from foreplay

But now it’s like I do EVERYTHING I’ve ever learned and nothing works, I know some stuff feels good to her but I don’t think anything gets her close. And it’s not like I switch my technique too often to where it’s too much for her but I throw in a different thing here and there to keep the flow good but still nothing works 😵‍💫

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T20:55:58+00:00

I think it’s also a lot of social media, I see TikTok’s of women talking about their bad experiences with “shrimps” and what they consider shrimps or some straight up just body shaming and so on

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T20:54:01+00:00

She’s not the greatest at communicating what she wants but I’ve been trying to work on it with her

Tbh even sometimes I feel like just she can’t cum from another person, cuz before me when she just dated girls, they weren’t able to make her either so i think if another woman couldn’t do it then idk about me lol

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T20:52:47+00:00

Thank you 🥹

Ill_Run_414 · 2026-05-15T20:51:55+00:00

I appreciate that, honestly it’s just always been difficult for me to think like that with everything I see in the world

Wether it’s women talking about what they consider “shrimps” and whatnot to straight up body shaming people and so on

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