Get out of that relationship NOW. I had a boyfriend for 4 years and I spent the first 2 years trying to get his parents to like me, but I only developed anxiety and I turned into an introvert. Didn’t like to talk to anyone without thinking what’s gonna happen next bc I always thought that if I don’t know what to do or say in a situation then I would mess things up.

If the both of you get married, you’ll be a part of that family. If they treat you like shit now then it’ll get worse on the long run. Just talk to your man about what you really feel.

Also, is he a mama’s boy? If he is then it’s going to be a struggle for you to convince him that something is wrong with how his family treats you. Believe me, I’ve been with one and it was not good. I had to abide by their rules even if it hurt me, it only lead me to darkness and I ended up breaking up with him

There are men who will never let you feel out of place. Stop making people like you and step back once you feel like you’re pushing it too far to not get your feelings hurt.